willman 10 #49 Posted December 28, 2018 41 minutes ago, Halibut said: You admitted to being called love and put up with it. So terms of endearment are ok or not ? When it suits in a public confrontation you choose to ignore it,thereby empowering men to continue with the same behaviour inperpituity. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Broakham 10 #50 Posted December 28, 2018 54 minutes ago, Shafeeq said: Wow. Wow. I cannot believe how this little topic has lead to so many messages, and clearly, ironically, the intent behind childish slurs is not a positive one. I only joined the forum yesterday. Clearly I will need to be very selective how I spend my time. Over and out on this topic, good people of Sheffield! Stick with it for while Shafeeq. Eventually you will recognise who the self-righteous, virtue-signalling bandwagon jumpers are. Once they swoop down on a thread, that is the time to bale out and go do something more interesting like cleaning the cats litter tray. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
scousemouse 10 #51 Posted December 28, 2018 I don't mind being called love or duck. What I DO object too is people presuming to call me by my Christian name. I will tell you when you can call me by my first name not before. I have told many about it particularly when enquiring about something over the phone , 'kids' who are probably young enough to be my grandchildren. They call it being friendly. I don't, it's disrespectful. Before I retired, I worked in a professional office, and would never have considered to call clients by their name name unless invited to do so. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Eater Sundae 12 #52 Posted December 28, 2018 2 hours ago, Halibut said: What if someone says 'alright pretty tits'? My man-boobs aren’t that good Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
swede1973 10 #53 Posted December 28, 2018 Just read a thread on Losing Interest, People should read this thread. A simple forum thread turns into a slagging match. I imaging the OP wasn't expecting this. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
WiseOwl182 10 #54 Posted December 28, 2018 24 minutes ago, swede1973 said: Just read a thread on Losing Interest, People should read this thread. A simple forum thread turns into a slagging match. I imaging the OP wasn't expecting this. I suspect she was. If she wasn't then it was maybe naive. Left wing, social justice warriors are like moths to a flame on threads like this. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
shaunyj 10 #55 Posted December 28, 2018 Wow, glad I am simple Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
francypants 445 #56 Posted December 28, 2018 I don't find it at all offensive, over familiar, derogatory or uncomfortable to be called ..... love, sweetheart, duck, etc. What I don't like is being called Madam. I find that term patronizing and I do ask the person not to call me it. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
euclid 10 #57 Posted December 28, 2018 1 hour ago, ANGELFIRE1 said: If you can remember Charlie Williams one time Doncaster Rovers footballer and latterly turned Comedian had the catchphrase, "me old flower" didn't see many complaints about it. Nearer home, my late Mum had a stock reply to these kinds of sayings, or to hear someone swearing, " it's better hearing such things than being deaf. " still sounds like good advice to me. Angel1. Yep, good ole Charlie,another one was "Mi owd luv" and he said it to millions...My wife also say's "bet they'd rather hear that than be deaf" if she hears anyone swearing.......this morning in Wilco/Clowne the lady at the checkout called me "sweetheart", in fact i get called it nearly everytime i go in....as a 70 year old man it just made me smile ...did/would i take offence...not on your nelly.....😄😄 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
PRESLEY 1,232 #58 Posted December 28, 2018 As Rigsby would say "stop the world I want to get off. . What if someone called someone Babe would they think they were being called a pig. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
cressida 1,585 #59 Posted December 28, 2018 W H Smith have a code of conduct, it's quite likely that if people were asked at an interview if they felt it ok to call customers 'sweetheart,luvvy, pet' etc. they would have said no - so if they believe it is ok then be frank or work where it's considered acceptable Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
RiffRaff 10 #60 Posted December 28, 2018 4 hours ago, francypants said: What I don't like is being called Madam. I find that term patronizing and I do ask the person not to call me it. Strange, isn't it?! And yet, not that many years ago, I was ordered to do just that! (See post #9) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...