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summer1955

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  1. i dont know i dont go on to chat to anyone so i dont know if it works never tried it. but the other things seem to work fine.everything i click on seems to work, sometimes i have had problems when trying to get some of the things on and its told me its not working at the moment and have to try later
  2. its not the imagination when more than one person sees what has happened. yes you can put it down to the imagination when only one person sees a ghost or something strange happening but when 2 or 3 people or more see it, how can 5 peoples imagination see the exact same thing at the same time.
  3. i am on virgin broadband and have facebook and its ok, have had the odd probs. i dont use if very much but its usualy ok
  4. i live near the newfield green shops only been here 6 months and i find that they are very nice in the bakery and always ready to talk and soon recognise you and remember what you usually buy. they are also nice in the chinese take away.not realy took much notice in the co op and freezer place as i am usually hurrying to get my shopping put away as not to hold anyone up
  5. i am 53 and i like a lot of the music in the charts which i have for the past few years i dont know if its because i can get to listen to the music more than i used to when hubby was alive and usually listened to mostly what he liked. through the 90s i thought the charts where a load of rubbish and there was a lot i didnt like but i would say the last 2 years i have listen to a lot and mostly listen to the latest records of the last 2 years than any of the older music that i used to listen to at the moment i cant get pinks song "so what" out of my head and love it
  6. i dont think single parents should be made to go out to work they should be at home for the children especially for the under 12 which they are going to make it that any children over 7 you have to claim job seekers. not everyone can easily get someone to child mind and why should they leave their children at that age to go to work or pay someone to look after their children when they may only get a low paid job and their money goes on child cost. they are not going to be any better off. if there were a lot of jobs to go round then maybe but there is that many out of work and not enough jobs to go round and a lot of them are just schemes that the government put you on and get cheap labour out of you i think if you have kids then you should look after them if you are a single parent then no work you are needed more at home. there are not many jobs that you can do what gives you the same holidays as school unless you are working at a school.i think the government have it all wrong my kids never had a key to my house until they left school i always made sure there was someone at home for them when they came from school as it should be.even when they were in their teens.
  7. that part is right but the revenge was the son and brother of the couple who had the kitchen done had taken joes tools so he could not do any work and they had cost him about a £1,000 so tina david and graham took revenge
  8. hello, i am here every day but i dont post a lot of the time though but i enjoy reading what most have to say
  9. my mum said that i'll gutometee yesterday when she was talking to me and i asked her what she meant i think she wasnt sure but said its what you say in amazement. she told me she said it to my aunt they were coming back from holiday and they had stopped off and there were a lot of shops and some went for a look round but my aunt said she did not want to go as it was too cold. when they got back in sheffield my mum felt cold and shuddered and my aunt told her its not cold my mum said well i'll gutta me tea. i asked her about the de dar one but she said she as never heard of it as i had not either only the lar de dar which is said when someone is talking/ acting snobbish i asked her about other saying but she said she does not know any but i can bet before long she will be coming out with something.
  10. who are they hurting if there is plenty of room on the bus or tram. the time to be annoyed is if they dont move their bags if the bus gets full i have many times put my shopping on the seat next to me but if the bus is getting full i move them. to be honest i hate sitting next to the window and if i get on the bus with anyone i get them to sit next to the window
  11. you dont have a right to know if they are coming and if someone as phoned them to say they think something is wrong that a child may be neglected, they come out without telling you so that you cant do anything to make it look as if everything is ok. they sometimes tell you that they will do random visits without letting you know first when they are coming as i know someone that as had this done you think it out if someone phones to say they think a child is being neglected or abused they are not going to tell you they are coming as they know you will do something to make it look as if there is nothing wrong
  12. they dont always tell you they are coming and sometimes if they do they phone you that same day and usually just before they come. they like to come and see you without you knowing that they are coming so as that you cant do something to make it look as if everything is ok if someone had reported to them that they thought something was wrong they would not ring you or send you a letter to tell you they were coming, they would just come on the spurr of the moment in catching you in
  13. i dont think i have ever paid no more than £30 for a coat and no more than £20 for a dress and thats out of a club, if shopping in town would not pay no more than £20 for a coat and no more than £10 for a dress ,skirt or pair of trousers. shoes i have never paid no more than £20 and thats in a club will not pay no more than £10 in the shops so probably the dearest item i have purchased was a coat for £30.
  14. that must be realy scary for you to see things like that,it must be upsetting for you when you see these black clouds and skulls especially if its someone close to you.i dont think i would like to see something like that, at least mine i can just put to back of my mind sometimes and not think about it. i have had the odd preminitions and so has my mum but they have been simple things that most people would probably say is just coincidence my mum and i both had something strange happen in the house at the same time the curtains just fell down and a few days later we had a phone call to say my uncle had died i also had a feeling that another uncle was going to die but that was as he was looking ill and i told my mum somethings not right and just had this feeling i was once on the bus some years going to work when i had a tightening in my chest which was just for a second as i went down city road later that night a lady came in to chip shop where i worked and was telling me about her seeing someone on city road at that precise time having an heart attack. i thought it was so weired my mum and i both have had on several occasions had the same or very simular dream to each other on the same night
  15. i was told this story once and was told that it was a true story but dont know for sure if it is this man went to have his fortune told and the lady could not tell him anything but he knew she had seen something and wanted to know, she said she didnt want to tell him but he wanted to hear what she had to say telling her that if he is going to die he wants to know she told him that he was going to die very soon and that it would be a big lorry that killed him she even told him when he was going to die he stocked his home up with everything he needed to eat ect and decided to stay in till after the time that she had told him there was no reason for him to leave the house and he thought i am going to change my destiny he did die being hit by a large lorry it crashed into his home and if she had not told him he was going to die he may not have been in the house at the time the lorry hit as he was not usually in the house at that time
  16. i have this tingling and numbness in my fingers have had it for quite a few years, i dont smoke, i was told about 8 years ago that i had a trapped nerve in my spine. the first time i went to doctors over this i was told it was carpel tunnel syndrone then when i went back as it was worse was told it was not that it was a trapped nerve in my spine. now all my fingers hurt nearly all the time.
  17. it took him going to a special school and a psychiatrist to get it out of him though. he had turned into a quieter child after his grandad died but i had not noticed it at first with going through my own grief and not knowing about what he had been through. it was a few years later when we moved house but he stayed at his school which was further away from where we lived and he was being bullied with kids from the local school on his way home which included them setting his coat on fire while he was wearing it but he managed to get it off and didnt do any damage, he didnt tell us anything about it at first until we were having to have him to doctors with constant stomach pains which i realised was stress related and he went to see a psychiatrist. he went to a special school for a short time and he came on realy well with it and he was able to talk about things to me. i too have had weired things as well. when my aunt died when i was 11 i had been staying at her house as it was school holidays and my parents were both working and i did not like going to stay with my gran for a few hours who lived near us as she was justing starting with alziemers and it scared me how she was the day before my aunt died my mum came to see me and bring me some clean clothes and i told her i wanted to come home, she thought i had been falling out with my cousin but i said i wanted to come home, in my head all i could hear was to go home not to stay here and also my aunt was acting weirred, most of the morning she had just sat at the window looking out and not hardly talking to anyone. the next day my aunt died also when my sister in laws mother inlaw died i was at her house and we were talking about her mother inlaw only in her early 40s and she had recently had 2 heart attacks and i just said to her out of the blue i think the next ones going to take her and within a few minutes her father inlaw came rushing in telling her that her mother inlaw had died also my mum had the same things happen, when my gran, her mother in law died she knew the exact time she was going to die, she told her sister she was going to go to the hospital to see her as she as a feeling that she is going to die later on today and told her the time she says i cant get 4 oclock out of my head. she went to the hospital and she had only been there a few minutes when 2 of my grans daughters came and there could only be 2 at the bed one was going to go back outside as my mum had only been there a few minutes but she told her she would go out as it was nearly 4 oclock and thought it was best that her daughter was with her and at 4 oclock my aunt came running out screaming. when my late hubby died just before he got really sick i was seeing people through the tv which we had a servailance camera hooked up to as we had been having some trouble with kids. it was late at night and could not see anything on the screen it was too dark only shadows of what was outside, but this man was just there on the screen he looked lke someone from way back a miner or could have been in the steel works with how he dressed but to me he looked like a miner. i thought i must be seeing things and even went outside to look after a while he went. a few days later he was back again and there were some others there but he was the one that i could see properly the others were very faint. this went on for weeks until one day i saw my hubby in the screen lying down as if asleep and this man there and other people around my hubby, soon after my hubby was diagnosed with terminal cancer and he died 6 months later and it was just like what i had seen on the tv screen him laying there and his family around him
  18. my son when he was 10 dreamt that his grandad was dying and it woke him up and as he woke up he saw out of the bedroom door his grandad actually dying on the floor, it was bad enough seeing his grandad dying before his eyes but to have dreamt about it as well, he never told us about the dream until about 5 years later and told us that he thought he was to blame for his grandad dying.
  19. that brings back a memory. when one of my kids he was only about 18 months old and he used to sleep in a bed at the side of our bed as he would not go in to sleep with his older brother and would not sleep in his cot. one night in the middle of the night when he was suppose to be asleep we did not realise he had woke up while we were at it and we looked over and he was doing the actions, could not carry on as we were laughing so much at him as it was so funny
  20. well i live near newfield green end in a masionette only been here 5 months and i find it ok here no major trouble only domestics, dont know what its like around the shops at night as i dont go out at night and i was told that constable road and around there was the worst part to be on
  21. minimo could be right she may have alziemmers as they do accuse people of doing things that they have not done i remember when my gran had alziemers she told people that my aunt had pinched all her money and they pulled my aunt up and had a go at her, she would talk about the house they were living in as if it was when they were ready to move into the house years before . she used to talk to photos on wall thinking they were real people. she could get realy nasty as well she chased kids with a knife and she tried to smash our house up when she stayed with us, she was realy frightening i was about 12 at the time but remember it all she could have had some noisy neighbours living in the house before you or some years back and she is remembering it as if its just happened.
  22. cant you put up a cheap survallance camera to catch and record who is doing this we had the same problem a few years ago we had just moved into a property not been there many months and we were getting stones thrown at window and also things thrown into garden, we had a window broke but most of all we had just put up a fence and they broke it but most was happening on the back so we knew it must have been the neighbour or someone on there property someone told us that it would be our next door neighbour that was doing it as they were a right lot and that they had broke the fence on the other side of them so we thought it was them and had a big row but when we got the camera put up we found out it was not the next door that was doing it but next door to them the lad was coming onto their garden and throwing at our house and things into the garden and we got him on camera and taped throwing at the window and taking the panel off fencing and coming into our garden
  23. its good that you gve up your seat it shows respect and its how you were brought up to be. you pay for the ride not the seat giving up your seat to someone elderly or disabled or to someone holding a baby/ toddler its a sign of respect and about paying an adult pays a lot more than a child, so why should a child sit down when an adult is standing.
  24. i go to bed between 10.30 pm and 11.30 pm and i am up every morning between 6.30 and 7
  25. oh so an oap does not deserve to get on the bus for nothing after they have probably worked 50 years and some of them have worked and not like work today in their days work was a lot harder and sometimes a lot more hours than you have to do these days they were brought up to have respect for olders and so rightly they should get respect now they are old.there are only the few of them that moan, its very rare i have come across many moaning pensioners.we all as we get older no matter who we are say the youth of today are not the same as in my day. its different for children standing than oap as there is a lot of oap that have problem standing as you get old your bones are not the same. children standing have their parents to hold on to them, yes its different if you have more than one child but then you share a seat. when i had 3 children the youngest would be sat on my knee and the other 2 would share the seat with me and if they was not room to sit on the seat with me the younger one as sat on his older brothers knee but most of time they were both made to stand up depending on their age and if it was a pensioner that needed a seat or someone younger. so any with 3 kids only need to take up a double seat. if you have a pram i know then its difficult to hold on to a child and a pram, but your pram does have a brake on it. some of you young mothers are lucky these days with the tram and most of the busses as you can take the pram on with the children in them, my day you had to take the children out of the pushchair and fold it up and get that on your shopping a baby or toddler in arms and probably other children besides. with my first son there was not the lightweight pushchair you could have so you could not get on the bus with a folding pram unless there was 2 of you
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