shoeshine Posted July 3, 2007 Share Posted July 3, 2007 I would never have an affair. I never felt the need to have one. I was 18, she was 15...we've been married 43 years next month. We didn't "mess"about prior to our marriage. We've had 3 lovely kids together.....we have wonderful grandchildren....we have always trusted each other implicitly. How can one betray a loved one like that? Were we lucky? Well we faced the good and bad times together as true partners. We both have had our differences as time went by, but those times pale into insignificance at our stage in life. She's the best thing I have ever had in my life. I don't say it nearly as often as I should, but I love her to bits. I sincerely hope you too find the same happiness in your lives. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hjkl Posted July 3, 2007 Share Posted July 3, 2007 I would never have an affair. I never felt the need to have one. I was 18, she was 15...we've been married 43 years next month. We didn't "mess"about prior to our marriage. We've had 3 lovely kids together.....we have wonderful grandchildren....we have always trusted each other implicitly. How can one betray a loved one like that? Were we lucky? Well we faced the good and bad times together as true partners. We both have had our differences as time went by, but those times pale into insignificance at our stage in life. She's the best thing I have ever had in my life. I don't say it nearly as often as I should, but I love her to bits. I sincerely hope you too find the same happiness in your lives. That is lovely. You have both truly found your sole mates. I wish you both every happiness together forever. I thought I had found mine but it wasn't to be. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moon Maiden Posted July 3, 2007 Share Posted July 3, 2007 If my partner was unfaithful, and I found out about it (as in the cheaters example) there wouldn't be a relationship for me to be unfaithful in. No question. To have an affair I would have to have serious doubts about the relationship I was in and have no self esteem what so ever. I can completely identify with the ladies who posted above about destructive relatioships. I am however so in love and happy with my man that even if Gerrard Butler asked me for an affair in his Spartan outfit I would say no! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BobbyBunny Posted July 3, 2007 Share Posted July 3, 2007 I wouldn't ever have an affair. After being the person who was cheated on I wouldn't ever be able to be the cheater. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cressida Posted July 3, 2007 Share Posted July 3, 2007 If I married again I wouldn't have an affair, unless he was inattentive and took me for granted - but even then it would take Daniel Craig or his look-alike Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Manager Posted July 3, 2007 Share Posted July 3, 2007 now a affair thats a idea lol, think if i was to have a affair the bird would have to look like pammy anderson lol or she have to do as i say all the time but that would never happen so im stuck with our lass!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ghozer Posted July 3, 2007 Share Posted July 3, 2007 jeeesus, how long does a girl have to wait for someone to wave some capital letters at her around here, eh? ** waves an X at babychickens ** Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scarby Posted July 4, 2007 Share Posted July 4, 2007 All the money in the world wouldn't even be half tempting! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ghozer Posted July 4, 2007 Share Posted July 4, 2007 .. honestly??? not much in my current relationship... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bomberman Posted July 4, 2007 Share Posted July 4, 2007 No possibility. If things were that bad I'd end the relationship. guess I'm just too honest and loyal. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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