*_ash_* Posted December 19, 2007 Share Posted December 19, 2007 I didn't say they were. What I'm saying is, a third-pard party may not like it so much, and their opinion may matter more. I don't understand, sorry, I'm a bit slow at this time of night... You mean your BF doesn't like you having male friends? , or you don't like your BF having female friends? (metaphorically speaking I mean:hihi:) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
metaphoria Posted December 19, 2007 Share Posted December 19, 2007 I don't understand, sorry, I'm a bit slow at this time of night... You mean your BF doesn't like you having male friends? , or you don't like your BF having female friends? (metaphorically speaking I mean:hihi:) Not close friends no-so both, if I'm honest. I would have felt a little jealous, and wouldn't have liked him to feel jealous in this situation. And so, I am talking whilst thinking about my ex, so perhaps I didn't get everything right. However, I'd probably feel the same in a future situation also, and if what I think and feel makes me sad in your opinion-so be it. And you're right, it is late. I'm not going to lose any sleep. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*_ash_* Posted December 19, 2007 Share Posted December 19, 2007 Not close friends no-so both, if I'm honest. I would have felt a little jealous, and wouldn't have liked him to feel jealous in this situation. And so, I am talking whilst thinking about my ex, so perhaps I didn't get everything right. However, I'd probably feel the same in a future situation also, and if what I think and feel makes me sad in your opinion-so be it. And you're right, it is late. I'm not going to lose any sleep. No no no, Either I mistyped or you misread. I didn't say you were sad. I said [meant] it was a sad situation if you don't feel comfortable having male friends. Maybe I should shut up, I seem to be getting into a habit of misleading/annoying lately:hihi: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
metaphoria Posted December 19, 2007 Share Posted December 19, 2007 No no no, Either I mistyped or you misread. I didn't say you were sad. I said [meant] it was a sad situation if you don't feel comfortable having male friends. Maybe I should shut up, I seem to be getting into a habit of misleading/annoying lately:hihi: It's OK, I'm probably wrong in my way of thinking anyway Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moonbird Posted December 19, 2007 Share Posted December 19, 2007 I think that platonic friendships can be maintained if that is all that they ever were quite easily. But I am much more doubtful of it working where there was ever a physical relationship... although saying that I have managed to do just that myself, but it does make it much more difficult. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lucretia_73 Posted December 19, 2007 Share Posted December 19, 2007 I think friendships with either sex are a whole lot easier to maintain than 'romantic' relationships. Things that would annoy me in a partner, don't bother me in a friend. I expect less from them and my friends don't get annoyed when I want to do things with other friends. They don't ask me where I'm going or what I'm doing when I'm not with them. They do fall by the wayside a fair bit, generally when people get partners and get wrapped up in them. I try not to lose my friends through my relationships, though I've lost a lot of guy friends through their relationships. C'est la vie. Wasn't there a thread about whether men and women (or men and men/women and women for that matter!)can be friends not long ago? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MkII Posted December 19, 2007 Share Posted December 19, 2007 No, not for me. All my close friends are all female, as I do not like 'platonic' frienships with men. If I like a man, I want him all to myself, or not at all. I find that male friendships lead nowhere, and only cause friction or intrude in relationships, or I suspect that they habour feelings for me, and I am uncomfortable with that. I may be wrong, but this is how I feel, that male friends are of no importance to me, and never have been. If I am a platonic friend to any man, it's fair-weather, and of lesser importance to other things. I agree with you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DynoDon Posted December 19, 2007 Share Posted December 19, 2007 ............................ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dkhank Posted December 19, 2007 Share Posted December 19, 2007 I think they can. I have many male friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Solomon1 Posted December 20, 2007 Share Posted December 20, 2007 Shame really though as she was the 'one'. so why didn't you go for it dd? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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