Anna B Â Â 1,442 #25 Posted December 9, 2022 Oh Patricia, I share your pain. I mean offence to no-one but I'm always putting my foot in it... Â Language has become another battle ground, (like we needed another,) but it is important. I just wish it wouldn't keep changing all the time while people make up their minds what is acceptable. It's hard to keep up.... 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
harvey19   541 #26 Posted December 9, 2022 I was told that the phrase coloured people was frowned on  because the phrase was on notices on American buses to segregate passengers. I think the phrase non white is probably a general description. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
pattricia   587 #27 Posted December 9, 2022 11 minutes ago, Anna B said: Oh Patricia, I share your pain. I mean offence to no-one but I'm always putting my foot in it...  Language has become another battle ground, (like we needed another,) but it is important. I just wish it wouldn't keep changing all the time while people make up their minds what is acceptable. It's hard to keep up.... I understand. I’ve come to the conclusion now that it depends in what context you use the phrase. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Meltman   315 #28 Posted December 9, 2022 I had to describe someone to the police. I tried to be very careful but I had to use terms that could (would!) have been offensive to someone somewhere. The police lady said that they need an accurate description and to use what ever terms fitted. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
pattricia   587 #29 Posted December 9, 2022 1 hour ago, Meltman said: I had to describe someone to the police. I tried to be very careful but I had to use terms that could (would!) have been offensive to someone somewhere. The police lady said that they need an accurate description and to use what ever terms fitted. Yes, it’s an awkward situation isn’t it ? 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Meltman   315 #30 Posted December 9, 2022 22 minutes ago, pattricia said: Yes, it’s an awkward situation isn’t it ? It is, I felt uncomfortable but the description had to be realistic and correct. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
pattricia   587 #31 Posted December 9, 2022 9 minutes ago, Meltman said: It is, I felt uncomfortable but the description had to be realistic and correct. Yes, I quite understand your predicament. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Meltman   315 #32 Posted December 9, 2022 2 hours ago, pattricia said: Yes, I quite understand your predicament. The police lady was quite alright about it, glad you understand too. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Alextopman   1,465 #33 Posted December 10, 2022 It seems a lot of these phrases are only wrong if said by a white person. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
prince al   195 #34 Posted December 10, 2022 (edited) Can you call someone chubby, or is it more socially acceptable to call them obese? Or bariatric? Edited December 10, 2022 by prince al Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Rockers rule   673 #35 Posted December 10, 2022 1 hour ago, prince al said: Can you call someone chubby, or is it more socially acceptable to call them obese? Or bariatric? Buoyant is a better word Prince Al 🤣    1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Minimo   59 #36 Posted December 10, 2022 32 minutes ago, Rockers rule said: Buoyant is a better word Prince Al 🤣    How very dare you use my photo without asking! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...