Frank Sidney Posted March 3, 2012 Share Posted March 3, 2012 It must be good to be a Bi. It doubles the opportunities... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessica23 Posted March 3, 2012 Share Posted March 3, 2012 Im sorry ,I do tend to see the sexuality of people as either Im not knocking anyone it just appears to me as though there would be a conflict in the mind of a bisexual,I remember reading about someone in the States,where else,going on a killing spree because of the dilemma as to whether he was straight or gay because he fancied men and women. So because one person has a struggle with something, everyone does? Why not do some reading on the subject? Human sexuality is endlessly fascinating, interesting, and diverse. There's plenty of information out there if you're curious about bisexuality. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
medusa Posted March 3, 2012 Share Posted March 3, 2012 Surely everyone goes through life and has 'ooooh, they're attractive' thoughts about people? If you're bisexual it just means that the people who you find attractive could be of either gender. It doesn't mean that they jump on all men and all women who happen to walk past and it doesn't mean that they find it any harder than the average person to be committed and/or monogamous to whoever they are with. It simply means that they are not restrained to one particular gender in who they find attractive- that's all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muldoon Posted March 3, 2012 Share Posted March 3, 2012 Didnt say I hadnt got over it but my parents teachings are still the backbone of my path through life I dont these days question homosexuality but I still dont understand it completely I have my morals as taught to me by my parents which says homosexuality is dirty and a no no but this is tempered by my understanding of the homosexual being as "just another guy/gal" by my education on the streets. I can understand that Glamrocker but then you are a friend of mine. I dont think that the posters know exactly what your point is, I do ! I started out with a wife and kids as you know but things changed and I couldnt help it. I didnt love my wife anymore and then found out that I preferred men to women. In the transition I suppose that I looked at both men and women but there is a point that you say to yourself " I am whatever I am" and I turned out to be gay. big deal to anyone that doesnt like it, I dont care. Nor do the bi sexual posters either really. its just a knee jerk decision to condemn any sexuality when its on a forum. anonymity is a brave thing.... can I do some dancing bananas now ? sod it.. :banana::banana: its a banana disco Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frank Sidney Posted March 3, 2012 Share Posted March 3, 2012 Although I was in the shower at the gym the other day and a man was looking at me. I was wondering if gay people should have a seperate changing room because if straight people can't share why should gay people be allowed in with straight. Or should gay men go in with the women, ooohhh yes that means we'd get the lesbians...I'm liking this plan... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Glamrocker Posted March 3, 2012 Author Share Posted March 3, 2012 I hate to be the one to break it to you, but those aren't morals. They're prejudices born of ignorance and fear. There is no moral argument against homosexuality whatsoever. There was then this is what you fail to grasp, those days people went to church in vast numbers and were taught a different set of morals to what people are taught today and there certainly were moral arguments then against homosexuality,the system has changed I dont deny that, in a lot of ways I think for the worst and in a lot of ways for the better. In fifty years if the law were to change and it became normal for siblings to have sex with each other would you not be shocked ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JenC Posted March 3, 2012 Share Posted March 3, 2012 Im sorry ,I do tend to see the sexuality of people as either Im not knocking anyone it just appears to me as though there would be a conflict in the mind of a bisexual,I remember reading about someone in the States,where else,going on a killing spree because of the dilemma as to whether he was straight or gay because he fancied men and women. Perhaps he was struggling to overcome the way in which he'd been raised, but it doesn't mean all bisexuals go through such dilemmas. There's no conflict in my mind. I've no desire to go on the rampage because I like men and women. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Glamrocker Posted March 3, 2012 Author Share Posted March 3, 2012 I can understand that Glamrocker but then you are a friend of mine. I dont think that the posters know exactly what your point is, I do ! I started out with a wife and kids as you know but things changed and I couldnt help it. I didnt love my wife anymore and then found out that I preferred men to women. In the transition I suppose that I looked at both men and women but there is a point that you say to yourself " I am whatever I am" and I turned out to be gay. big deal to anyone that doesnt like it, I dont care. Nor do the bi sexual posters either really. its just a knee jerk decision to condemn any sexuality when its on a forum. anonymity is a brave thing.... can I do some dancing bananas now ? sod it.. :banana::banana: its a banana disco But the point is youre not actually bi sexual are you as you said you tried a straight life but encountered problems with yourself and realised you were gay ..thats not the same as bisexuality Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Glamrocker Posted March 3, 2012 Author Share Posted March 3, 2012 Perhaps he was struggling to overcome the way in which he'd been raised, but it doesn't mean all bisexuals go through such dilemmas. There's no conflict in my mind. I've no desire to go on the rampage because I like men and women. Are we talking the hedonistic life here or the "lets get settled down and become a family" life ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessica23 Posted March 3, 2012 Share Posted March 3, 2012 There was then this is what you fail to grasp, those days people went to church in vast numbers and were taught a different set of morals to what people are taught today and there certainly were moral arguments then against homosexuality,the system has changed I dont deny that, in a lot of ways I think for the worst and in a lot of ways for the better. In fifty years if the law were to change and it became normal for siblings to have sex with each other would you not be shocked ? What you are presenting there as morals were the result of ignorance and fear. In philosophical terms, there is no moral argument against homosexuality. Further back than 50 years ago - like, say, in ancient Greece, to pick an example not entirely at random - attitudes were very different from the Victorian 'morality' you're talking about there. I'll be honest - I don't particularly care if siblings want to have sex. It doesn't shock me, or upset me. It may be unusual, but sibling-attraction happens. And incest as fantasy is very, very popular, as evidenced by the large amount of porn that is incest-themed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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