Dealing With A Sudden Loss.

[The_DADDY 3,478]

How do you do it?

You know to sort,  one day everything seems fine then a few days later It happens. 

I'm not sure if the suddenness of it all makes the feeling of loss seem greater, I'm sure it contributes though.

How do you pick yourself up, dust yourself down and move on? 

Do you try to fill that new gap in your life or do you take time, think things through then try to move on slowly?

[pattricia 582]

4 minutes ago, The_DADDY said:

How do you do it?

You know to sort,  one day everything seems fine then a few days later It happens. 

I'm not sure if the suddenness of it all makes the feeling of loss seem greater, I'm sure it contributes though.

How do you pick yourself up, dust yourself down and move on? 

Do you try to fill that new gap in your life or do you take time, think things through then try to move on slowly?

Take your time and grieve properly first. Then move on slowly.

[Mr Bloke 1,445]

9 minutes ago, The_DADDY said:

How do you do it?

You know to sort,  one day everything seems fine then a few days later It happens. 

I'm not sure if the suddenness of it all makes the feeling of loss seem greater, I'm sure it contributes though.

How do you pick yourself up, dust yourself down and move on? 

Do you try to fill that new gap in your life or do you take time, think things through then try to move on slowly?

Hmmm...

I suspect Mr Padders will be able to help with this.

He's recently lost something that he obviously felt very attached to...

[bassett one 452]

its a sad time,a friend of mine bought a puppy ,it did not solve the problem,but it needed his help and became a friend,not a cure and not for everyone ,but he said it helped him .

[fools 447]

the OP is a windup merchant

[bassett one 452]

if thats true hes a very sad person

[Prettytom 1,648]

11 minutes ago, bassett one said:

if thats true hes a very sad person

Just sit back and wait for the punchline.

 

I’m going for 11pm tonight.

[Mr Bloke 1,445]

9 minutes ago, Prettytom said:

Just sit back and wait for the punchline.

 

I’m going for 11pm tonight.

Hmmm...

It's exciting int it, Mr S?

The question is, will the "big reveal" be of a quality to compete with the unfortunate supermarket incident that Mr Padders had a couple of days ago...

... and which will now be forever known in forum history as the great "Morrisons Money Mishap"?

[stylefree 14]

Depends on the type of loss as to how you deal/recover from it

[The_DADDY 3,478]

Theres some strange replies here but then when I look at the usernames it makes perfect sense. 

The posters who don't like me are so quick to pile in and make fun.

Now that IS sad.

[Prettytom 1,648]

10 minutes ago, Mr Bloke said:

Hmmm...

It's exciting int it, Mr S?

The question is, will the "big reveal" be of a quality to compete with the unfortunate supermarket incident that Mr Padders had a couple of days ago...

... and which will now be forever known in forum history as the great "Morrisons Money Mishap"?

There’s always the possibility that he’s lost his parrot and found a cockatoo.

 

That would at least be an uplifting ending.

Edited July 23, 2023 by Prettytom

[Mr Bloke 1,445]

11 minutes ago, The_DADDY said:

Theres some strange replies here but then when I look at the usernames it makes perfect sense. 

The posters who don't like me are so quick to pile in and make fun.

Now that IS sad.

Hmmm...

Well that's not very nice, Mr Daddy!

I find YOU very entertaining quite amusing almost bearable...

... it's just a few of your "mates" that I find annoying!