owltillidie Posted October 12, 2014 Share Posted October 12, 2014 You are having big problem and you are asking this lot for advice.??????? Good luck. You are going to need it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babyblueeyes Posted October 12, 2014 Author Share Posted October 12, 2014 thousands of people split up and have kids together so your not alone in this, what might seem hard right now will hopefully get better in time don't dwell on the past but think ahead for the future remember those kids need you The thought of my ex with somebody else sickens me it breaks my heart whats wrong with me???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dean9 Posted October 12, 2014 Share Posted October 12, 2014 Dont take how you feel at the moment very seriously. This may sound all hippy dippy but the change in seasons does have an major effect on how we feel. I have felt a bit depressed lately and i know its because of this. Just take your time, don't do anything rash. Your feeling will come back into your natural state. I know this is hard but look at things in a positive light, it helps. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anna B Posted October 12, 2014 Share Posted October 12, 2014 (edited) A bit of jealousy and resentfulness towards my ex Oh darling - you and probably every ex in the country will be feeling this at some time. It's worse at some times than others, but it will pass eventually. I know, I've been there. The good thing is you have children who love their father, and you understand how important this is and don't want to wreck it, (even though the temptation is sometimes enormous.) I know it's for their sake, but you will benefit too in the long run, and can feel proud that you took this approach. Try to look forward, not back. Get help and support if you can (doctor might be your first port of call.) And remember you are not alone and these feelings are normal and to be expected. Wallow every once in a while if you must, but it's best to keep busy and make a concerted effort to move on and build a new life. Easier said than done I know, but it's the only way. And if you believe in Karma, it helps. Knowing what goes around comes around eventually... Edited October 12, 2014 by Anna B Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aspinal Posted October 12, 2014 Share Posted October 12, 2014 And if you believe in Karma, it helps. Knowing what goes around comes around eventually... Hang on a minute Anna. You don't even know what happened and here you are wishing bad karma on the poor chap. I think we need to establish why they broke up first before we go wishing bad things on people. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Joker Posted October 12, 2014 Share Posted October 12, 2014 You don't even know what happened and here you are wishing bad karma on the poor chap. I think we need to establish why they broke up first before we go wishing bad things on people. Who'd have thought an insignificant little thing like bad karma would upset you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ricgem2002 Posted October 12, 2014 Share Posted October 12, 2014 The thought of my ex with somebody else sickens me it breaks my heart whats wrong with me????nothings wrong with you to feel like this its natural after a breakdown just think for the future Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
owltillidie Posted October 12, 2014 Share Posted October 12, 2014 The good thing is you have children who love their father, and you understand how important this is and don't want to wreck it, (even though the temptation is sometimes enormous.) I know it's for their sake, but you will benefit too in the long run, and can feel proud that you took this approach. And if you believe in Karma, it helps. Knowing what goes around comes around eventually... The only reason he is still around . it is for his ego and he can date 2 birds at once, Also he can get her to do his landry etc etc so he can have more time for the other girl. First thing you have to do is stop sleeping with him, and dont do any of his landry and you will see the true face of this so call man Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babyblueeyes Posted October 12, 2014 Author Share Posted October 12, 2014 The only reason he is still around . it is for his ego and he can date 2 birds at once, Also he can get her to do his landry etc etc so he can have more time for the other girl. First thing you have to do is stop sleeping with him, and dont do any of his landry and you will see the true face of this so call man Its not like that I dont do his laundry etc and even if I did it was by my choice Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
owltillidie Posted October 12, 2014 Share Posted October 12, 2014 (edited) Its not like that I dont do his laundry etc and even if I did it was by my choice SOunds like you do are dont it? how did i guess!!!! Stop sleeping with him or it will never end. He will know you will still be around, When this relationship finsh he will just look for next one as he knows you are his doormat Edited October 12, 2014 by owltillidie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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