lyndix   10 #13 Posted March 31, 2009 no one ever sends me rude messages, I`m feeling left out now! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Swan_Vesta   11 #14 Posted March 31, 2009 I've been neither the giver or the receiver  How antisocially asexual I feel. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Digsy   10 #15 Posted March 31, 2009 I've been neither the giver or the receiver  How antisocially asexual I feel.  I wouldn't worry about it, you aint missing much, I can't actually remember who the person was I was talking to, or how the conversation actually went. Or when it was for that matter. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Rudders   10 #16 Posted March 31, 2009 I'm sick and tired of getting sexually suggestive PM's, so much so that I don't even bother replying anymore so if you're thinking it, don't send it, you will be wasting your time.                         Yeah right! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
pattricia   582 #17 Posted March 31, 2009 Have you ever send a bit of a rude 'come-on' or sleazy private message to anyone on here (not including people you know), or have you ever replied to one? I'm asking because I was the lucky precipitant of one not long ago, the contents were ... disgusting, the spelling was at a worse level than my 8 yr old and the punctuation was completely absent. Its obvious that the sender wasn't trying to be disgusting, rude or tasteless in any way, he even left me his mobile number in case I found his message irresistible!  I do not know of one woman who would find such infantile language or poor writing skills the slightest bit exciting, so why do men (some men) send them in the hope of a date ... or whatever  Is there any people on here who would happily exchange pornographic type private messages with a total stranger ?  Before I'm told to report him, I wasn't offended, just bemused, and I'm not trying to get the poor deluded fool banned!  Yes Ive had some in the past. Just deleted them. They do persist until they get fed up.! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Moonbird   11 #18 Posted March 31, 2009 I have had several from strange men at work who are bored and want a chat...then a date hmmm  The best was from a man at work who was bored,married and also wanted me to have an affair with him and meet him secretly until he eventually would leave her....whattttt?? needlessly to say I declined his kind and thoughtful offer  Then the flirty pm's I received from someone who's ad I answered, I took it as a bit of fun until they got a little too much so I then ignored them, he got rather nasty!  All of these people were men that I had never seen post at all apart from the one offering a service (in more than one way) a joke is one thing and I enjoy a laugh but ...what saddo's, hence me now always showing offline! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Digsy   10 #19 Posted March 31, 2009 I have had several from strange men at work who are bored and want a chat...then a date hmmm  The best was from a man at work who was bored,married and also wanted me to have an affair with him and meet him secretly until he eventually would leave her....whattttt?? needlessly to say I declined his kind and thoughtful offer  Then the flirty pm's I received from someone who's ad I answered, I took it as a bit of fun until they got a little too much so I then ignored them, he got rather nasty!  All of these people were men that I had never seen post at all apart from the one offering a service (in more than one way) a joke is one thing and I enjoy a laugh but ...what saddo's, hence me now always showing offline!  Woah you must be one hot momma, mind if I pm, doh why am I asking here comes the pm. Your work colleagues pm you through sf, or do you mean through work email etc. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
*Banjo* Â Â 10 #20 Posted March 31, 2009 how many posts do I need until I can receive sleezy pm's?? :hihi: Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Digsy   10 #21 Posted March 31, 2009 how many posts do I need until I can receive sleezy pm's?? :hihi:  Depends, its like winning the lottery, and what you say in a post is your ticket. Talk about your dongle alot, you should do well.  You should get a customary one around post 1000, when you reach 10,000 then the mods have to disable your pm system as it needs its own internet connection due to bandwidth people use reading posts that are six years old and assuming you want some. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
*Cinderella*   10 #22 Posted April 1, 2009 I had an invitation for an evening out, but it was not sleazy, very polite in fact. An Arab gentleman over here on business (or so he said). Wasn't sure whether I wanted to find myself trapped ironing for an entire harem though so I declined of course. Wonder what he'd have thought if I'd accepted though  Should have kept the PMs, they were quite touching.... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
foxy lady   10 #23 Posted April 1, 2009 I had an invitation for an evening out, but it was not sleazy, very polite in fact. An Arab gentleman over here on business (or so he said). Wasn't sure whether I wanted to find myself trapped ironing for an entire harem though so I declined of course. Wonder what he'd have thought if I'd accepted though  Should have kept the PMs, they were quite touching....   I too have had a similar invitation for an evening out, although not from an Arab. It wasn't sleazy but very direct. The "gentleman said he was attracted by my avatar (since changed). He lost interest when I told him the avatar was infact was a photo of my grand daughter. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Rashspateen   10 #24 Posted April 1, 2009 Anybody wanna sleazy message then ??? :hihi: Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...