i have struggled with my weight for last few years,i ballooned to a size 16 and went to a dieting club to get down to a size 12.i have now gone into size 14 clothes..im always going on about my weight.my hubby likes me now at the weight i am..he doesnt like really skinny women,my kids like me the way i am too.they thought i looked gaunt and ill at a lower weight.i dont think us women are really happy with our bodies,you see so many skinny birds in the media and you always judge yourself alongside them.i think victoria beckham needs a good gut busting dinner down her kneck,she is far too thin.