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  1. Felix, a good friend of mine found herself in a similar situation, but a lot of money was also involved. This person was very credible and ingratiated herself into my friend's generous and loving family.

     

    When everything came out that this person wasn't nearly as nice (or honest) as everyone thought, it devastated my friend. It was a really difficult time for everyone, and she did what you did and cut off all ties with this person.

     

    AngelAnnie's advice is spot on. Hope you manage to get over this very soon.

  2. Bethsmummy and cll23. Unfortunately, meals for your childrens' school are cooked at the local junior school and transported over. They are then kept warm until lunchtime. This isn't an ideal situation, but the dining room was demolished several years ago and there is no funding/space to replace it.

     

    Sharon, the cook at the junior school cooks everything from scratch (to a very rigid menu/recipes) and does an excellent job. She can often gauge what is unpopular with the little ones and will send over more of the popular meals. I know she also sends a few extra meals over.

     

    The portions never filled my boys at that school, but again, the portion size is very rigid. I have never had any complaints from them about the meals at junior school.

     

    If they go to the junior school, she gets to know who likes what, and is able to cater more for individuals. If your children talk to her, she will do her best to make sure they get what they like. The school is very lucky to have such a lovely lady as their cook.

     

    Go4it, I know you like to stir things up and play devil's advocate, but what the hell does the use of full stops have to do with school dinners? Stick to the point please!

  3. I've been to Firth Park library today to collect my free bags. Whilst there, I asked for some for my disabled mum who struggles to get out on her own, only to be told that I can only have one set of bags. I questioned this, saying I felt she was being discriminatory towards the disabled/elderly. She told me I could go back tomorrow and get another set of 6 bags!

     

    She wasn't budging on this, so I returned home and collected my son, who went into the library whilst I waited for him outside. He was given the bags.

     

    When I got home, I rang Violia to complain about the ridiculous system, and was told that I could go and buy some green bags!

     

    What a wonderful system!!

  4. Happysmiley, I have sons in both Concord and Hinde House schools. I have to say that my youngest son is far happier at Concord than my eldest ever was under the previous head. There are some excellent, committed teachers there and my lad goes to school with a smile on his face every day. He is very good at maths and he is encouraged to excel.

     

    My eldest son is in his second year at Hinde House and he has blossomed. He was bullied all through Concord (under the old head) and was an angry frustrated boy when he went to Hinde House. He still grumbles that some of his lessons are 'boring' as I suppose most 13 year olds do but he is doing really well and gets involved with everything going. The school has done him the world of good.

     

    I hope that has helped to balance out some of the negatives portrayed in some of the earlier posts.

  5. have you ever added another dog to your family and did it change your first dog in any way

     

    We have just done it Laura. Tilly(Staffy cross) is almost 5 and we now have had 10 week old Arthur (GSD) for 4 weeks now.

     

    We still can't keep them in the same room together as Tilly just wants to attack him. Although we are seeing small glimmers of her softening towards him, she is still pretty stressed out by the whole thing. Arthur is totally oblivious and just wants to play with her.

     

    I wouldn't be without either of them but I am beginning to wonder if I am being unfair expecting Tilly to accept a pup.

  6. Well, we have had Arthur for 3 weeks now, and today we have witnessed the light at the end of the tunnel. Tilly sniffed at Arthur then stood and studiously ignored him whilst he sniffed back.

     

    I know that is a minuscule step, but it is certainly one in the right direction.

     

    He has doubled (literally) in weight in 3 weeks and at this rate it won't be long before he is as big as her.

  7. Thanks for the encouraging words. I keep wondering if I haven't been fair to Tilly getting another dog, but my last 2 dogs lived happily together for 15 years. It wasn't without fights in the early days whilst they established the pecking order but nothing like Tilly - she is so stressed.

     

    I firmly believe a dog is for life, so we will persevere and at least hope for a truce. Roll on 30th May when we can get them out together!

  8. Tilly is 5 and a staffy cross. She isn't good with small dogs but plays happily with anything bigger than herself.

     

    A week ago, we bought a 6 week old German Shepherd, and Tilly won't accept him, to the point that we are having to keep them separate at all times for fear of Arthur's safety.

     

    Do I have to wait until he gets bigger than Tilly, or can anyone suggest any training strategies that may help. Life in the house is pretty stressful at the moment.

  9. caffeine started to give me palpitations so I had to re think it and never looked back.QUOTE]

     

    Me too Moonbird. My blood pressure was high too so I bit the bullet and started by just having my early morning 'fix' of caffeine, then having decaf for the rest of the day. I had tried to this a couple of years ago and had terrible headaches like the OP and soon gave up.

     

    I've been completely off caffeine for about 6 weeks and the palpitations have gone and my bp is on the low side of normal (I'm not sure if there is any medical evidence to back this up, or if it's psychological).

     

    To the OP, I suggest you persevere, it does get better.

  10. This sounds very similar to my situation with my grandma in 1999. She was assessed as needing residential care but there was no funding to allow her to be looked after (apart from the 2 visits a day).

     

    I wrote to the director of Social Services, and told her that I would hold her personally responsible if anything happened to my grandma whilst she was living at home. Funnily enough, she was in residential care by the end of the week.

  11. Sure you'll find something :P

     

    Do you know me??? :D

     

    The insurance company are collecting it sometime today, and it isn't officially 'written off', just my untrained assessment.

     

    It's easy to say that traffic lights are the answer, especially if you live on a road where you can easily park your car. Traffic lights will remove parking for many houses.

     

    I use the junction of Newman most days and I think people are creating arguments for arguments' sake. It's not that bad, but would be better if people respected the speed limit.

  12. Speed has nothing to do with the fact that visabilty is restricted at the junction of Newman/Jenkin.

    It's already been said, it's impossible to get a clear view up Jenkin Road when approaching the junction from Newman because of parked cars on Jenkin.

     

    Speed has everything to do with it. If the cars weren't parked there, the general speed on that part of the hill would be much faster and people wouldn't get out of the junction anyway.

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