Kaimani   10 #25 Posted August 13, 2011 Such utter tosh. Not every guy who's single is gay, has gay feelings, or is in the closet. Some guys, you know, have moved past all the sex nonsense to help others, and are just there to be caring considerate human beings.  come on, K. read up the OP. something is not at centre with the guy described. not right. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
nightrider   13 #26 Posted August 13, 2011 What do you think of the type of man who only has platonic female friends? This is the type of man for whom women will use as a shoulder to cry on when they may have had a bad time with there partner, or been treat badly.  This is the type of man who you can discuss your problems with, you can tell this man anything and you know full well anything you say will stay with him.  This is the type of man for whom you can go to for advice on anything, you can socialise with him safe in the knowledge that he will never try it on with you.  This is the type of man who you can introduce you your mother - and she will love him, the type of man who you can introduce to your female friends and they too will treat him like one of the girls.  He drinks cocktails, never swears, never gets into any sort of trouble and is the ultimate metrosexual  This is the type of man who is always single.  So what do you think of this type of man, is he good or in a way do you feel sorry for him?  I feel sorry for him - he's missing out on a big part of life. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Karis   11 #27 Posted August 13, 2011 come on, K. read up the OP. something is not at centre with the guy described. not right.  I was referring to all the mega judgements on here (which isn't surprising, really).  There are loads of reasons why this guy would be the way he is. I certainly don't think there's anything 'wrong' or reason to pre-judge him.  I feel sorry for him - he's missing out on a big part of life.  See! People are just so judgemental. Not everything revolves around sex or relationships. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Kaimani   10 #28 Posted August 13, 2011 I was referring to all the mega judgements on here (which isn't surprising, really). There are loads of reasons why this guy would be the way he is. I certainly don't think there's anything 'wrong' or reason to pre-judge him.    See! People are just so judgemental. Not everything revolves around sex or relationships.  yeah, but why would this guy do all that for 'nothing' in return? that's counter intuitive. outside of some kind of saint no one would live up to the OP. i would expect some time between their knees in return for them soiling my shoulder. all's fair. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
wotsits   10 #29 Posted August 13, 2011 I was referring to all the mega judgements on here (which isn't surprising, really). There are loads of reasons why this guy would be the way he is. I certainly don't think there's anything 'wrong' or reason to pre-judge him.    See! People are just so judgemental. Not everything revolves around sex or relationships.  The OP asked hypothetically what do you think of someone with this traits and I answered the question. They would annoy the living hell out of me. Of course asking for an opinion the answer will be based on judgement. People have made a judgement he is lovely, how do they know that he maybe complete sociopath psycho for all they know, it works both ways. I defy anyone to come on here and say they never prejudge anyone. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Karis   11 #30 Posted August 13, 2011 The OP asked hypothetically what do you think of someone with this traits and I answered the question. They would annoy the living hell out of me. Of course asking for an opinion the answer will be based on judgement. People have made a judgement he is lovely, how do they know that he maybe complete sociopath psycho for all they know, it works both ways. I defy anyone to come on here and say they never prejudge anyone.  Honestly. This is the Internet, it's RIFE with pre-judgement. It's impossible to judge someone in the real world; everything on here is merely speculation - and invariably innacurate... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
wotsits   10 #31 Posted August 13, 2011 Honestly. This is the Internet, it's RIFE with pre-judgement. It's impossible to judge someone in the real world; everything on here is merely speculation - and invariably innacurate...  And the OP isn't describing a real person, or hasn,t written like she is. She has put a set of character traits down and asked for opinion. People have given there opinion whether I agree with it or not. I have put mine and thats it. For all we know the OP could be writing a play or a book and is doing some general character study. If I want to character assasinate then I will. I find huge amounts of different people with different characters that are different to mine, I annoy the hell out them they do the same to me. I am not going to pretend I don't judge just because you don't want me to have an opinion on a set of made up character traits. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Kaimani   10 #32 Posted August 13, 2011 Honestly. This is the Internet, it's RIFE with pre-judgement. It's impossible to judge someone in the real world; everything on here is merely speculation - and invariably innacurate...  the OP did ask for opinions, which, in all but name, means you do have to 'judge' the traits described then form your opinion. mine is there's something wrong with the man described. something creepy. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Karis   11 #33 Posted August 13, 2011 You are, of course, correct.  Everything online is based on our own judgements. We can't possibly know the truth of anything. Hell, most people find it impossible to do in the real world, never mind behind the veil of the Internet.  But it IS fascinating to see how many people think there's something 'wrong' with this guy... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Kaimani   10 #34 Posted August 13, 2011 You are, of course, correct.  Everything online is based on our own judgements. We can't possibly know the truth of anything. Hell, most people find it impossible to do in the real world, never mind behind the veil of the Internet.  But it IS fascinating to see how many people think there's something 'wrong' with this guy...  :hihi:  K, come on, you can honestly say this guy is all 'normal' and healthy? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Karis   11 #35 Posted August 13, 2011 :hihi: K, come on, you can honestly say this guy is all 'normal' and healthy?  Yes. I absolutely can. It's impossible to say without meeting him but the whole 'he can't possibly be as nice as he pretends to be' is just getting old.  Some people are as nice as they appear to be...  Edit: and have no ulterior motive other than wanting to help people. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
wotsits   10 #36 Posted August 13, 2011 You are, of course, correct.  Everything online is based on our own judgements. We can't possibly know the truth of anything. Hell, most people find it impossible to do in the real world, never mind behind the veil of the Internet.  But it IS fascinating to see how many people think there's something 'wrong' with this guy...  Must admit, I am suspicious about everything. Irony is I would do anything for anyone. It is possible that he could be as dodgey as he is good. People have more than one facet. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
