matsalleh   10 #13 Posted February 13, 2010 I'm the same my glass is half full. Time for another can of Jonny Smiths.  Problem solved drink from the can and not the glass. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Aries22 Â Â 10 #14 Posted February 13, 2010 Is it someone else telling you are wrong, or just you yourself, Often to solve a problem there are always different ways to solve it, as the saying goes, if at first you do not suceed try, try again. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Plain Talker   11 #15 Posted February 13, 2010 What do I do when I feel everything I do is wrong?  I stop reading SF for a couple of days... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Urien   10 #16 Posted February 13, 2010 What do I do when I feel everything I do is wrong? I stop reading SF for a couple of days...  Yeah! switch off the computer and do something positive - a long walk in the countryside is always a tonic Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
medusa   16 #17 Posted February 13, 2010 I'm just as bad as you in feeling that I'm doing things wrong, but I do try to remember what I say to my learners when they're struggling:  You don't learn anything from doing things right. You learn by doing the wrong thing, working out what you did wrong and then planning how not to do it wrong in future. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
cori   10 #18 Posted February 13, 2010 Do not let yourself feel that way. Simple. You know everything you do is not wrong. We know it - even without knowing you. You do what you need to do. And if someone is making you feel like crap - just ignore them. Chin up.  thanx for that ... im trying hard , its not easy when feeling this low but il keep trying ...... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
cori   10 #19 Posted February 13, 2010 Is it someone else telling you are wrong, or just you yourself, Often to solve a problem there are always different ways to solve it, as the saying goes, if at first you do not suceed try, try again.  yeah said that so many times , this morning as well ...im doing my best and i dont want another failed relationship ..... thanx so much for your reply Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
cori   10 #20 Posted February 13, 2010 Yeah! switch off the computer and do something positive - a long walk in the countryside is always a tonic  yeah might just try that when i feel a bit better ..iv got good plans for the summer when it comes .. and that wont include sitting round here being got at ..its the new meeeeeeee from now on thanx so much for the reply Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
cori   10 #21 Posted February 13, 2010 I'm just as bad as you in feeling that I'm doing things wrong, but I do try to remember what I say to my learners when they're struggling: You don't learn anything from doing things right. You learn by doing the wrong thing, working out what you did wrong and then planning how not to do it wrong in future.  yes thats true but its makes me feel so down when i told im wrong all day long .. i feel im no good at anything so most of the time i just give in and say ok .... this is why im the way i am now ..thanx for the reply Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
medusa   16 #22 Posted February 13, 2010 yes thats true but its makes me feel so down when i told im wrong all day long .. i feel im no good at anything so most of the time i just give in and say ok .... this is why im the way i am now ..thanx for the reply  If this is to do with a work situation then it sounds a lot more to do with your line manager or supervisor than with you.  Even if someone is doing something wrong, there are ways to tell you that without dropping your self-worth into your boots and making it more likely that you'll do other things wrong too.  What does it achieve to make someone doubt their own ability? All that happens is that they are less likely to strive hard to attain new knowledge and skills and less likely to trust their own abilities and develop. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
DragonofAna   10 #23 Posted February 13, 2010 thanx for that ... im trying hard , its not easy when feeling this low but il keep trying ......  Hey - you are talking to the god of how to do everything wrong here  Keep doing and keep hoping that one day I do something right - but that's the fun of life - trying and trying again and again, and not letting someone get you down. Just remember - you cannot please all the people all the time; and you definitely will not please some people some of the time; or something to that effect.  Anyhow - you posted to sf and that was something you did right so you lose your claim to doing everything wrong. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Dozy   11 #24 Posted February 13, 2010 yeah said that so many times , this morning as well ...im doing my best and i dont want another failed relationship ..... thanx so much for your reply  yes thats true but its makes me feel so down when i told im wrong all day long .. i feel im no good at anything so most of the time i just give in and say ok .... this is why im the way i am now ..thanx for the reply  It sounds like the only thing you are doing wrong is staying in a relationship that is destroying your self-esteem.  Better a failed relationship than one which makes you unhappy and miserable all the time. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
