rach80

St Aidans Road the first one?

b & M have em 1.29 for 20 I got some for my daughters bedroom....look great

I too lived on mount street for 28 years, I moved out this year. I have great memories of living in sharrow (most of them from when I was a kid) It used to be a great place to live, everyone knew each other, everyone looked out for one another and as snuffty said you could leave your door unlocked and your stuff would be there when you came back. I could walk down the street and say hello to almost anyone, they would know me and I would know them, but now I could walk down the street and not know anyone. There are still a few of the people I grew up with, but most are now strangers and what used to be a great place to live as been destroyed. I've seen more cop cars on the street in the last 6 years than I ever did in the previous 22 years. The crime level must have increased in the following areas: Shootings, stabbings, muggings, drugs, burgulary and the list could go on but these are the ones I have notice. I have a little girl now and she is one of the main reasons we moved out of the area. The schools have gone down hill, the community spirits gone and I would never dream of letting her play out after dark like I did. Its all well and good going back after dark to have a look at the area, but thats just one night, you may drop on a quiet one. Whatever you decide I wish you luck x

We have tried talking before, it ends in an arguement then we dont talk......then we make up he helps for a week or so then back to square one...so whats the point!!!!?????

43.5 where did that number come from??????? You work 9.00-5.30 every day So thats 8.5 hours a day minus 1hour for lunch which equals 7.5 hours times 5 equals 37.5 hours I think I said 38!! Yes you do work every other saturday 9 - 1 (4 hours) But do you not get this time bak in flex in the week???? like I told you I wasn't trying to air laundry I would have used the washing line for that as I believe thats what their for just in case you did not know. I came on here to get other peoples opionions instead of having another poinless arguement with you.....but once again its turn out that way. I never sais I was an angel and yes I do like things to be done right here right now but only so its out of the way and we can spend the rest of the day as a family.....but it was never like that was it???? I dont want it to become a "you did this" but "you did that" thats not what the thread was about. I just wanted to know if I was asking too much. To most people I wasn't to the minority yes B ut to you I must have been asking the world. Thanks again to all of you that replied and I'm sure Mr Right will come along one day but until then I'll just keep my house clean and the little one happy The END X

What does contraception have to do with it????

Sorry misunderstood you

Yeah its true me mum works there!!!

See thats my problem x I give in, and we go around in circles but this time its really got to me...

Did you not read that he does 38 hours and I do 32????

I just want to say thanks for all your replies, although some have confused me. I'm still not sure what route to go down. I have tried the "i'm not doing anything for you, until you start doing stuff for me" It works well for a couple of weeks and then we return to "normal" Leaving is a big step and it's not as simple when you have a little one, although not impossible.....This option is still open. Writing a list of jobs to do....is this just not another job to my list??? Counselling.... I have suggested before,but the answer as been a firm not in my life time!!! I just dont know what to do....my heads a mess and I am at the end of my teather Arrrgggggghhhh

Wife swap would be more like a holiday for me x

I can just imagine the argument now x

sorry I dont reply to every post

No its not physical it's same as what I do sit at a desk with computer and telephone!!!

Physical whats that???? I get up every week day at 6am get myself ready, feed the pets, prepare our daughters pack lunch, then get her up, wash and dress take to breakfast club for 8.00am. Then go to work ( Rotherham - I do drive) start work at 8.30am Finish at 4.30pm Pick daughter up from after school club, sister's or Mums. Go home feed daughter and pets. Wash pots tidy round hoover. Pick OH up from work ( 10 mins down road) Bath daughter, get ready for bed give super. take to bed read story) 8.30pm cook my and his tea, get a shower myself ready for bed. Sit on sofa for the first time...(fall asleep) Weekends I get up around 7.30 - 8am But then all washing, ironing, stripping beds, park, shopping etc is added in to the day.

see this is another thing he has 2 younger brothers and said he had to do all of the mention for them when he was growing up while his mum and dad went to work and the pub x So if he could do it for them why cant or wont he do it for his famliy now

Ive done all this before........but he just leaves it......It does noth bother him that the washing basket is crawling up the wall.....Eventually the pots drive me mad so I have to do them I think I may have slight OCD I can leave mess for a while but then I have to give in and do it

Trust me hes had a few more than that

Your right.......Dont think I have not said these things to him see loves to go out on her bike, kick the ball around the garden even his interest in lizards as worn off on her see has a few plastic ones and copies what he does. Sometimes he does spend time with her and you can see the difference with her when he does most of the time she wants me to do things with her but if he just takes five minutes of his time she instanly becomes a daddy;s girl which I love to see....not only does it give me a break its just worth it to see the smile on her face

no ironing mentioned x

wishful thinking x

The reply to that is how do I know what needs doing .

I'm seriously thinking about it . . . . .I thought I was just asking for too much! I know is not good for you but Its nice to know some one feels the same.

He works 38 hours over 5 days and I work 32 over 5 days