Sorry if this turns into a long post, I'm going to try and keep it factual rather than emotional, despite how I'm feeling.
I'm wondering if anyone in Sheffield has been a surrogate or had a child through surrogacy?
Apparently very few babies are born through surrogacy each year in the UK (around 50-100), and I don't know anyone personally, or through my extended network, who's experienced it (from either side). I know there are organisations that have forums and support for surrogacy, but I was wondering about doing it in Sheffield specifically.
Our much longed for baby was stillborn recently, and the likelihood is that further pregnancies would end the same way. He was conceived through IVF, and we're lucky enough to still have 4 frozen embryos (our son's 'twins'). We've considered adoption for many years, but decided to keep trying with IVF, and although we were blessed to get pregnant, it wasn't to be. I don't feel ready to move to adoption while we still have some embryos on ice (our little frosties).
Surrogacy is a potential way forward. Our son was perfect, but my body let him down. Potentially our little frosties have a good chance in another woman's body.
Jessops ACU are fantastic, we've had some counselling with them as we wanted to be egg donors (I still will be one day, but our last IVF cycle didn't give us enough eggs to be allowed to share), and I suspect they'd be supportive of surrogacy as they believe strongly in gamete sharing, but it's not really clear.
Has anyone been involved in surrogacy at Jessops? Or CARE Sheffield?
Thank you in advance for your replies. I will talk to them directly of course, but sometimes these things need to be heard first hand.