Kaizabella

Hi,

Found a ginger and white cat roaming just off airedale road in Middlewood / Wadsley. She's in fiarly bad condition with matted fur and no fur to the ends of her tail and appears to be very thin / malnutritioned. She's been trying to follow me home for about a week now and today I finally let her in.

Just wondering if anyone in the area has lost a pet recently. She's been wearing a "staywell" collar that appears to have been on for a very long time. We're not supposed to have cats in our house but she looks so unwell I've brought her in and fed / watered her.

I'm gonna take her to the vet to try to see if she has a microchip tomorrow but after that I've no idea what to do.

Thanks

Kai

Dammit, I'd really love to come, but money dictates otherwise.

If I can persuade the OH to lend me enough for a pint or two, I'll pop down.

Love the bit about the comfortable silences just feeling happy with each others company. Only problem I have is when she starts talking again.

I'm sure the OH would say the same thing about me.

It's someone to throw the cups at. Walls are so boring.

we're supposed to be extolling the virtues of relationships, not planning the redecorating!!

When your upset or in a bad mood, you've got someone who knows when to leave you alone, and someone who knows exactly when to give you the world's biggest hug without saying a word.

Someone who knows all your favourite wines and makes sure they're in the fridge when they know you're on your way back from a hard day.

Thats a really valid point!! Taxi it is then!!

The phrase that annoys me the most is 'so I TURNED AROUND and said'

What's with all the bloody 'turning around'?

DO you ever get the mental image of two people just spinning around on the spot talking to each other???

Sounds like a diamond idea to me, although it's a fair walk to the corp.... TAXIIII!

 

 

yes I'm that lazy:hihi:

Well if we START at the Dove, we can always make our way to Corp slowly, maybe via the Benjamin Huntsman and the Dev Cat

Yupyup!! Well looking forward to it!!!

Where are we reckoning beforehand then? Couple of games of pool in the Dove now they've got a pool table again?

At the end of the day.....

*pulls hair out*

@ Lyndix. Definitely

Also, someone to help me carry the shopping, someone who doesn't care if I stagger in at 3 in the morning drunk with my make up smeared down my face, he just laughs and makes me breakfast in the morning, someone who tells me my ass looks fine no matter what I'm wearing, and means it.

A life sentence is always for life but a lifer can service the latter part out of prison on licence:

 

"A Life Sentence Licence applies to any person serving a life sentence who will be released from custody on licence. An individual must comply with the conditions of his licence in order to remain in the community and not be returned to custody. Conditions of a licence may include, for example, being placed under the supervision of a nominated Probation Officer, not changing a place of residence or employment without the consent of a Probation Officer, and keeping in contact with a Probation Officer in accordance with instructions"

I don't believe he should be given the chance. Why should he be given the chance to even try and form a normal life?? His victims will never have a normal life, they'll suffer for the rest of their days. The pain will lessen, but it'll still be there, in the back of their head, no matter what they do.

Why should he be allowed out? Ever!

Further to Epiphany's post about how its great to be single, I want to start a thread which says that I'm really happy I'm in a relationship.

I love coming home to cuddles and a cuppa, having those comfortable silences where you're just happy with each others company, having someone there who makes you laugh till you cry, pokes fun at you but would kill anyone else who did the same.

What do all the other coupled up forummers like about being in a relationship? What is it that your partner does that makes you feel all warm and fuzzy, and glad to be alive?

Haven't been in ages cos my friends and I like a pool table, but now the Dove has one again, we'll definitely start going back!

Been going for years, and its still one of the friendliest pubs in town, has one of the best atmospheres, and I've got so many great memories of going in for "a pint" of Old Rosie with my mum and stumbling home about 6 hours later

Pretty much inevitable. The parole board is made up of humans, not gods; they will never have a perfect record. Doubtless there are people who are no longer a threat but don't get out, as well.

I do get what you mean, I just think that there are certain types of crime which should mean you don't get that chance.

Maybe it should. I just wanted to point out that it DOESN'T. We don't have a "go to jail until you die" sentence in this country.

OK, I misread you there, sorry, thought you were saying that there shouldn't be. Emotive subject I guess. There definitely should. Why should someone who wrecks someone else's life be able to go out and ever live theirs again. Even if they feel remorse, they should accept the fact that they committed this crime and so take their punishment. This man doesn't ever deserve to go free, "rehabilitated" or no.

Where was his wife/partner when this was going on. Surely she must have known as her daughters kept having children, How could she just have turned a blind eye.

Its not quite as simple as that. Would you want to believe your husband was doing this to your children or would you look for any other logical alternative.

This woman is probably beside herself, blaming herself for what happened. Its all well and good to look at these things with hindsight, but the type of men that carry out these crimes are good at lying, good at controlling people and good at creating a veneer of respectability.

However, there are cases of those "rehabilitated" who come out, only to commit another crime.

I'm a firm believer of the punishment should fit the crime. He has ruined the lives of his daughters, and so his life should be ruined. Life SHOULD mean life in some situations.

but when does life ever mean life? Its very rare that someone who is served with a life sentence serves the full term. Life should mean life. No parole, no chance. If the crime is for a life sentence, why should they go free again?

Metal again for me. Not something Slayer / Thrash metally, cos I'd fall over within 5 minutes, but something with a good beat. I really don't think I could put my MP3 player on Shuffle, as it'd go from something really heavy and fast to folk music to canticles to doom metal, and I don't think i could cope with the constant change in pace.

Anyone know what TRANSPHOBIC insults are?

Insults against transgender people.

Reduced to come into line with a sentence for "serious murders"? In that case the sentence for murder should be increased.

The justice system in this country is a joke. That man should NEVER, EVER be allowed to walk free. This kind of man will NEVER stop. Its an addiction to him. I hope that judge knows that by reducing the sentence and letting this $&*$^% walk free in 14 years, he's more then likely condemned another young girl to misery.

I hope he can live with himself.

Ah cool, but also bugger, I didn't realise it was that night...

Ah well....

Interview with a Vampire - 8/10

Still never gets old, and every time I watch it I realise even more how vastly superior it is to "Queen of the Damned"

Ta hunny.

I get paid the friday before, so I'll stand you a coke or two if you want.

Anyone else up for some Corp shenanigans??

and the winner is alchresearch!! well done have a dohnut

 

the sign is a maonic gesture,,,

 

heres more of our world leaders doing the same

 

 

dont worry its just a secret society that you are not invited to join!!

 

when you first see it you will think ok so what?? thats what i did but when you see it all over the place then something is not right...

 

one last thing watch bush senior and bush junior in this

 

cliphttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wQw6MfWLSCs

 

 

i just think it odd that powerful world leaders have to join a secret society from their voters...

*headdesk*

Thank you, for the "mountain out of a molehill" post of the day.

as Levaithan says, its more than likely that her hand fell that way.

Persevere hun.

Antidepressants can take a while to kick in, and I know you're probably hurting and panicky, but you will feel better, you've just got to keep on with it!

*hugs*

Wish you all the strength in the world and if you ever need a chat, PM me, I've suffered anxiety and panic attacks for about 12 years now.