rubydazzler   11 #121 Posted April 9, 2007 Good luck with that. If you find a man who claims not to like porn, then you're having a relationship with a lier. Which is better, porn or lying to you?  Cyclone, when anyone else makes these gross generalisations about things, you always take them to task. I have to take you to task here, just because you and a lot of other men you know like viewing porn, doesn't mean to say all men do, some men will want to took at porn all the time, others only when they don't have a partner, and others hardly ever because they aren't interested in vicarious enjoyment and prefer the real thing only.  I don't particularly like it myself, but I'd never claim that all other women don't based on my own experience. Calling other men liars because they don't share an interest you have, is a gross generalisation on your part. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Lindos   10 #122 Posted April 9, 2007 I have chocolate Lindos ... and gin?  *rummages about in a pile of magazines and videos*  I've got a fireman calender from 2003 and a video with Sean Bean and some woman in a barn .... Any good for you?  I'll have them couriered over, if so?  Not realy a gin drinker Rubes, and the firemen wouldn't help me at all and I'm supprised at you for that one.  The chocolate however...... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
pattricia   575 #123 Posted April 9, 2007 Over to you, cressida or ruby ? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
cressida   1,570 #124 Posted April 9, 2007 And if you think finding your fella has a copy of knave under the bed is justification for an affair anywhere except in your life you are deluding yourself.... also if you think not liking porn makes one man better than another, I think you may be misleading yourself.  well I am not or would be married - would that be an affair then? and I've never heard of knave  i don't think liking or not liking porn makes a man better than another, it's what a person is comfortable with Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
cressida   1,570 #125 Posted April 9, 2007 Cyclone, when anyone else makes these gross generalisations about things, you always take them to task. I have to take you to task here, just because you and a lot of other men you know like viewing porn, doesn't mean to say all men do, some men will want to took at porn all the time, others only when they don't have a partner, and others hardly ever because they aren't interested in vicarious enjoyment and prefer the real thing only. I don't particularly like it myself, but I'd never claim that all other women don't based on my own experience. Calling other men liars because they don't share an interest you have, is a gross generalisation on your part.  well said Ruby that was what I was trying to get across too:) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
pattricia   575 #126 Posted April 9, 2007 well I am not or would be married - would that be an affair then? and I've never heard of knave i don't think liking or not liking porn makes a man better than another, it's what a person is comfortable with  I think most men are comfortable with Knave, cressida. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
cressida   1,570 #127 Posted April 9, 2007 I think most men are comfortable with Knave, cressida.  and some aren't which are the ones I'd go for - if that's ok? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
rubydazzler   11 #128 Posted April 9, 2007 Sowwy Lindos, I was just giving an example of the type of 'porn' that I'm comfortable with half naked muscley firemen in big boots and anything with Sean Bean being a bit of rough in a barn is my idea of porny heaven! I'm just soooo predictable ....  I didn't think for one moment it'd interest you ... you norty beast! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Lindos   10 #129 Posted April 9, 2007 and some aren't which are the ones I'd go for - if that's ok?  Ok, so would you ask on the first date....or would you see how things develope before finding out? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Swan_Vesta   11 #130 Posted April 9, 2007 I think most men are comfortable with Knave, cressida.  This one isn't. Knave is on par with Razzle, It's council porn at best  There are far better publications out there, although saying that neither I or anybody I know has bought a bongo mag in years - God bless the internet Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
pattricia   575 #131 Posted April 9, 2007 Sowwy Lindos, I was just giving an example of the type of 'porn' that I'm comfortable with half naked muscley firemen in big boots and anything with Sean Bean being a bit of rough in a barn is my idea of porny heaven! I'm just soooo predictable ....  I didn't think for one moment it'd interest you ... you norty beast!  You said you didnt particularly like it yourself, in a post of yours above.Do you or dont you, ruby. Ah, those firemen. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
cressida   1,570 #132 Posted April 9, 2007 Ok, so would you ask on the first date....or would you see how things develope before finding out?  well as I have only just found out that so many men like that type of thing, and gauging how interested he was in having a relationship which might take longer than a first date, NOW I would say "If I saw that you were interested in sex magazines I'd be happy if you would find someone else" I don't think lying about it works as honesty is the best policy Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
