Elan Tedrona Posted October 31, 2006 Share Posted October 31, 2006 I know most people will laugh at this and say what the hell.....but hear me out. There is this girl in university who is in my class. She is a fine girl by the way:hihi: The thing is i catch her every day staring at me and smiling in my direction. There was this time when i was speaking to my physics teacher one day asking him about this calculation problem and she just winked at me as she walked past the teacher. I totally forgot what i was about to say to the teacher totally embarassing myself Now many of you might say, well go for her. But she has got a boyfriend who incidentally is in my class too. sometimes i feel bad when i get thoughts of going off with his girlfriend. Do you think it's right to go elope with someone's else partner? One part of me says if she is being forward then just join the party and don't give a damn about her boyfriend. But overall i just feel sick and tired about eyed up and down everyday Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Swan_Vesta Posted October 31, 2006 Share Posted October 31, 2006 If she's giving you the glad eye then pursue her. Get her scuttled and then work it out as you go along. If she knocks you back then no worries; dilemma solved. If the boyfriend presents any problems then deal with that problem as it arises. Either way you'll either get laid or disappointed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoeP Posted October 31, 2006 Share Posted October 31, 2006 Assuming that she has a boyfriend and he's not just a friend who happens to be a bloke... Let me play Devil's Advocate here. If she's giving you the come on with a b/f in tow, then what's to stop her doing the same to you further down the line? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hmr44 Posted October 31, 2006 Share Posted October 31, 2006 Don't do it! She sounds like a bit of a..... how can I put it nicely? Well you know what I mean! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
redrobbo Posted October 31, 2006 Share Posted October 31, 2006 I know most people will laugh at this and say what the hell.....but hear me out. There is this girl in university who is in my class. She is a fine girl by the way:hihi: The thing is i catch her every day staring at me and smiling in my direction. There was this time when i was speaking to my physics teacher one day asking him about this calculation problem and she just winked at me as she walked past the teacher. I totally forgot what i was about to say to the teacher totally embarassing myself Now many of you might say, well go for her. But she has got a boyfriend who incidentally is in my class too. sometimes i feel bad when i get thoughts of going off with his girlfriend. Do you think it's right to go elope with someone's else partner? One part of me says if she is being forward then just join the party and don't give a damn about her boyfriend. But overall i just feel sick and tired about eyed up and down everyday Dear Elan Tedrona This young girl is toying with you! Whilst ever she has a boyfriend, she has no serious intentions towards you. More probably, she wants to see you two fight for her favour. She is not being forward! On the contrary, she is being devious and mischievous. This girl spells trouble! Next time she winks at you, bluntly ask her if her boyfriend knows she behaves in this way, and walk away before she can answer. That should put a stop to her behaviour. Now get yourself to the Union bar, and find yourself a nice lass to chat up. Problem solved. Uncle Red Next! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shoeshine Posted October 31, 2006 Share Posted October 31, 2006 Dear Elan Tedrona This young girl is toying with you! Whilst ever she has a boyfriend, she has no serious intentions towards you. More probably, she wants to see you two fight for her favour. She is not being forward! On the contrary, she is being devious and mischievous. This girl spells trouble! Next time she winks at you, bluntly ask her if her boyfriend knows she behaves in this way, and walk away before she can answer. That should put a stop to her behaviour. Now get yourself to the Union bar, and find yourself a nice lass to chat up. Problem solved. Uncle Red Next! Dear Deidre...alias redrobbo........ :hihi: ( only kidding:) ) Elan Tedrona I will give you a bit of advice from a mature man......matured beyond my liking incidentally! I presume the Course you are on will run for several months until the new semester. May I suggest you wink back to her when she winks at you. In due course she will decide which one of you two she wants as a preferred companion at the College/University and will either drop the "winking at you" business and subtly leave you a note, or she will drop her boyfriend studying in the same class. Whichever happens, your conduct will have been exemplary throughout. If she takes the latter action.....both you and the girl are free to make your own minds up about how the future will be for each of you. (Shoeshine's Free Relationship Advice Centre for the Smitten. ps Cross my palm with silver and see the future!) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bago Posted October 31, 2006 Share Posted October 31, 2006 Dear Elan Tedrona, This sure brings back memories. Ahh... Auntie Bago, moi, used to have see this bloke in her halls of residence who always say 'How' to her, every single day, and smiles. She makes nothing of it. Maybe she is teasing you. Maybe the girl is just practising her flirting skills. If you want a relationship with a girl, then I would not necessarily consider her to be a good potential, especially if she already has a bf. Btw, you don't know this girl, and it isn't like you know her, know her. So why fight for her in any way ? The risk is too high, over what, a smile ? (Huh?) Hm... If you guys were mates, and you knew each other for a long time, and you've fallen for each other at the same time, then it's worth fighting for. But for some stranger. Hm... I don't think it's right to elope with anyone that you don't really know well. When you've communicated with the person, you might find that she's not all that 'fine'. A smile is one thing, but personalities also count. If you like this girl, then maybe at least find out whether she does indeed have a boyfriend. There is nothing wrong with being just friends. Hope you will get over this dilemma soon. Your feet seems to be floating off the floor at the moment. Yours amusingly, Auntie Bago Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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