kimmie Posted September 28, 2006 Share Posted September 28, 2006 I have just been watching tv and they are talking about affairs. There is a woman who says her profression is being the other woman! and she gets her kicks out of having affairs with the married man, do you agree with this?? What is your opinion on affairs, and do we find having affairs more exciting than staying with the one partner? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KenH Posted September 28, 2006 Share Posted September 28, 2006 I have just been watching tv and they are talking about affairs. There is a woman who says her profression is being the other woman! and she gets her kicks out of having affairs with the married man, do you agree with this?? What is your opinion on affairs, and do we find having affairs more exciting than staying with the one partner? What's wrong with having a hobby? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kimmie Posted September 28, 2006 Author Share Posted September 28, 2006 but how does she sleep at night knowing that she could be ruining a life long marriage? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zamo Posted September 28, 2006 Share Posted September 28, 2006 but how does she sleep at night knowing that she could be ruining a life long marriage? It wouldn't be her ruining the life long marriage it would be the husband. He's the one that made the commitment not her. Personally I think wives should be more understanding of a mans needs and actually invite other women into the matrimonial bed. Perhaps not all the time but certainly on special occasions. It's not healthy for man to live on one meat alone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thunzi Posted September 28, 2006 Share Posted September 28, 2006 but how does she sleep at night knowing that she could be ruining a life long marriage? The bloke she's sleeping with is the one cheating, he's a lot more responsible for the actions than her. If he's looking elsewhere it probably won't be a lifelong marriage anyway. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Devine22 Posted September 28, 2006 Share Posted September 28, 2006 she wouldnt care, as long as she is getting what she wants, I couldnt be like that myself and If I cared about the bloke I would hate it knowing he was going back home to her!! Just not fair, and if the bloke was happy with his missus he wouldnt even bother with anyone else. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
medusa Posted September 28, 2006 Share Posted September 28, 2006 Personally I don't know how she lives with herself, but that's for her and the bloke who's abusing his wife/partner's trust to live with. I totally fail to understand why people have affairs anyway- if you don't want to be in the relationship (and let's face it, if you're having an affair you're not that committed to it, are you?) then split up and then have another relationship. That way nobody is living under false pretences. I think I know what she believes she's getting out of the whole thing, but I couldn't live like that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faye12 Posted September 28, 2006 Share Posted September 28, 2006 I think the number of affairs are growing in society today, and I am not sure if others feel like this, but its very hard to trust because of this. Why do people who have affairs say 'that they weren't happy' why not be open and say they want to leave their partner? Why have an affair behind someones back because in the end it normally comes to light anyway, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kimmie Posted September 28, 2006 Author Share Posted September 28, 2006 i agree with you medusa, i dont understand why they do it. Is it because they get a kick out of it? do they find it exciting? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kimmie Posted September 28, 2006 Author Share Posted September 28, 2006 has anyone ever had an affair, or had a relationship with a married man or woman? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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