Matherz Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 Sorry to post somthing abit sinister, But today i got a txt from my sister that my Mate for his whole 18 years has passed away! I recently moved to sheffield 6 months ago and i cant help but wish i didn't.... I just dont know how to feel... Im soooo angry that "god" (if u believe in that) chose that he wasn't to see the 5th September 2006! He was the nicest chap ya cld meet.... Did no harm... I just wanted to try and vent some emotion and wondered if u have suffered like me, and how did u cope? Thanks for listening.... Matt Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hmr44 Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 Aw I'm really sorry, Matt. If it helps I believe that you can't stop when you are destined to die, so don't kick yourself over not being there with him, even though it is natural to feel that way. Hope you're ok x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sugar_Kiss Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 sorry to hear that!! i know how your feeling, my bro died and it was so hard i cant begin to explain, time does heal though matt xxxxxxxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happyhippy Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 Sorry to hear of your loss mate. It's always painful, and there are precious few words of comfort. All I'll say is to carry on down the same road, but maybe just a little more slowly for a few days. You'll know how to deal with it; human instinct is a powerful thing. Take care. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
minnime Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 hi hun sorry to hear this n thinking of you you dont cope it hard you just get by it does get easier take care:) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matherz Posted September 5, 2006 Author Share Posted September 5, 2006 thank you all.... just need a realise at the moment... Dont quite understand things at mo.....hard to "carry on"... Sorry im just babbling now! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sugar_Kiss Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 you babble all u like sweety!!! it will do u good Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
minnime Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 thank you all.... just need a realise at the moment... Dont quite understand things at mo.....hard to "carry on"... Sorry im just babbling now! matt i no just how u feel i lost someone close 5 years ago n thort my life had ended at that moment.Dont worry u aint babblin it the shock of it as well it still hard now at times take care n thinkihg of you you do what you have to we are here for u hun:) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carpetviper Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 Sorry for your loss. Personally I believe in karma where you life is allready mapped out for you and death comes when it comes and there is no way to quicken or avoid it and you go when it is your time and not before this way helped me with the death of my nan who was very close to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rubydazzler Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 If this is the first person who was dear to you that you've lost, it's bound to kmock you for six, and as your friend too, you don't expect people your own age to leave you. You have to give yourself time to grieve for the lost friendship and I always like to think that whilever you think of them, they're still here in a way. Be extra kind to yourself for a while, and talk all you need to about him, to family and friends. And if you feel you can't do that, there's always someone here to listen. Condolences on your sad loss. r Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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