kimmie Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 MEN PLEASE DON'T CRITICISE ME FOR THIS! I went on to the internet yesterday, and i saw something which didn't impress me! As i went on google i saw that big t**s had been searched! now there is 2 girls in this house and 1 male which is my fiancee! i asked him about it, and he said that he hadn't been on there and that it could have been on there for ages, but i know it hadn't! i kept on about it all day, and eventually he said he tried to go on it, to compare mine with theirs, so he could buy me underwear. This is the most pathetic excuse i have ever heard, then he went on to tell me he was looking for ideas for us! I eventually got it out of him that hhe was just going on it, just to look, and have a w***k over it! he said he never even looked at anything, but when he was last on the computer when i walked in the room, his left hand was moving quite fast under teh table, he saw stopped and quickly turned something off the computer! He later said that his sister and her ex used to look at porn all the time when they were on there own! Why does he have to be like evryone else!???? It has upset me a lot because why does he need to look at porn if he has got me i don't undersatnd! Maybe on the otehr hand i should expect him to, hes a 20 year old thats what they do! Now i feel like i am not good enough, that my looks what i got isn't making him happy! p.s. he turned everything around on me saying that its all my fault and that i dont trust him etc............ is it my fault??? Am i in the wrong????? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dearsue1 Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 men are all pervs in my opinion. they dont admit it. This is same the world over i think. they have to be touching there bits every so often. Maybe hes insecure about something. I would leave him to get on with it. but make sure he does not use your pc for his own pleasures. tell him to do it in his own time and not under your roof. It is totally unacceptable where there are kids using a pc. Does he not know the new laws. Porn is going to be illegal. well hard porn anyway. I dont know why men need it. Its is not because how you look love believe me. Some people are never happy with what they have until its too late. Is he younger than you? just wondered. Make him aware that you are not happy and tell him it has to stop. Give him some ultamatum. You deserve to be happy. dont put yourself down because of him. put a password onto your pc then he cant use it. I sympathies with you. good luck and take care Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CockneyMafia Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 Out of interest, how old are you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*binty* Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 Out of interest, how old are you? She's 18, its says so in her profile x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Strix Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 p.s. he turned everything around on me saying that its all my fault and that i dont trust him etc............ is it my fault??? Am i in the wrong????? You are not in the wrong Trust has to be earned, and he's got one hell of a lot of ground to make up It's the bit about turning the tables on you that worries me more than the porn... that's the top of a slippery slope, that's only going to get steeper once you're shackled to him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CockneyMafia Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 She's 18, its says so in her profile x All this modern technology.... Well, all I would say is this. You are 18, your fiancee is 20. That makes you not only very young to be getting married, but also very naive about a lot of things, which can casue problems later on in the relationship. I really dont mean this to sound patronising, but its a simple fact that certain things can only be learnt with age, and I would argue that an emotional understanding and acceptance that other peoples fetishes and desires is one of these things. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GazB Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 Crikey. In general women are just as dirty minded (it shouldn't even be called that, it isn't dirty it's completely normal) as men. Just because he looks at porn or in this case, just a pair of t!ts.. doesn't mean he likes you any less or wants them more. And in reply to dearsue1: men are all pervs in my opinion. they dont admit it. Wrong way around love. Men will generally openly admit they like porn etc, women that like it just as much will be the ones that don't want to admit it. Get real! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kimmie Posted September 5, 2006 Author Share Posted September 5, 2006 He is 2 years older than me, yes im 18 ( thanks michelle). He wouldn't even say sorry until i said 'are you not sorry that i have seen it and found you out and don't you show no remorse' he said sorry in the most sarcastic way! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UKSentinel Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 Have you considered that fact that he could just be one hell of a horny hot blooded male? I'm not going into the whys and wherefors of how many times men masturbate in a day/week but it happens regardless of the relationship they're in. Sad fact of life but doesn't mean that he doesn't care any less for you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BluePolo Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 It's violent porn that they are on about cracking down on. - not that I ever download any sort of porn of course. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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