Friendship. What is it?

[melthebell 862]

a friendship is a deep understanding, shared interest between two or more people?

its a spark between two or more people that just means you get on together more than normal?

friendships have different layers, some people your friends with and some people you are best friends with

 

something like that anyway

[jena76 10]

thanx jena hun i always say friends are like four leaf clovers

lucky to have but very hard to find:thumbsup:

very true minnime! i have had quiet a few friends that just use u etc and to be honest im glad to have got rid! a friendship comes naturally aswell shouldnt be hard work:thumbsup:

[minnime 10]

hey come on you lot tell me wat u think:)

[shoeshine 10]

hey come on you lot tell me wat u think:)

 

OK, minnime........your new avatar is scary.

[minnime 10]

OK, minnime........your new avatar is scary.

should i change it but it how i feel:(

[shoeshine 10]

should i change it but it how i feel:(

 

minnime.......sweetie, I am only joking.......

[minnime 10]

minnime.......sweetie, I am only joking.......

lol i thought that but dint want a ban for it hun:thumbsup: :hihi:

[lauramuz 10]

hi minnime i think a friendhip is based on trust and loyalty i have only got a couple of friends really as i dont bother with ones that arent worth it! a proper friend isnt just out for themselves and is there for u when needed:thumbsup:

 

 

Trust and loyalty!! i strongly agree

[shoeshine 10]

lol i thought that but dint want a ban for it hun:thumbsup: :hihi:

 

Over the Mod's dead bodies............they do have a sense of humour you know.

 

They must have a sense of humour to let me keep posting some of my rubbish.

 

Friendship........it's when you can tell someone something important to you and you know they will not disclose your thoughts to anyone else. It's a mutual trust between 2 or more people.

 

It's about being a good listener and a truly trustworthy confidant.

 

It works both ways.....the friend also trusts you to be the same with them.

[minnime 10]

wat should you do if someone wants to be friends so yo that happy u shower them with messages n then you have blown it:(

[lint 10]

come on you lot would love to hear what u think:thumbsup:

i too have found out the hard way that so called friends can be very fickle indeed and were never my friend in the first place,apart from my mum who is my best friend and one friend at work,although we dont socialise or go out or anything like that as she has her husband and family ,but we can tell each other anything and no it will stay a secret.apart from that i have no true friends what so ever and life gets very lonely indeed but as you say it is hard to put your trust in people to accept them as friends when bad things have happened in the past

[dibsy 10]

wat should you do if someone wants to be friends so yo that happy u shower them with messages n then you have blown it:(

 

You have to realise that not everyone of us is the same and we all don't like the same things.

 

There's the kind of people that love receiving messages all the time and the other kind who maybe just like the odd one or two and are happy for it to be left that way.

If you think you've blown it then maybe leave them alone for a while, they'll get in touch in time if that's really what they want.