Advice please on relationship issue. What would you do?

[deathbyhorus 10]

Do not take any cr*p from this guy! Leave him and do not look back!

[ronthenekred 10]

Exactly right. You got to keep working hard, not push him away . And if he is straying and there is something you can do about it then you should make an effort.

 

Exactly wrong.

 

Why should anyone make an effort at someone who is unable themselves to make an effort let alone a commitment? He was shagging someone while striking up a relationship with the op and still wasn't pushed away..giving him the benefit of doubt only again for that trust to be abused.

 

So, tell us how you'd cope when you found your missus is servicing 3 para when on leave after she previously exhausted Sheffield Eagles? "I wouldn't push her away, I'd keep working hard"?

[themissis 10]

what makes you think the next man will be any better? is sticking with the devil you know. yes he might be cheating, you have to ask yourself why? are you doing something wrong? do you need to lose weight? wear more decent clothes?

people nowaday throw away a relationship too easy. You have to keep working hard for a good long term relationship

 

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Actually I'm size 8 with a professional career in civil service, Im certainly not fat and scruffy!

[AlquarUK 10]

more importantly you need to check his SENT messages. He cant stop people sending him stuff, easily, but if he is sending text out of a similar you probably have a problem. If all conveniently deleted again seems like a prob. I don't delete texts regular so image most others without things to hide don't either.

[girlyblonde 10]

do youself a big favour and leave this lyingpig ,,, they never change,,,,,,once a cheat always a cheat, :/

[fredsredhat 10]

more importantly you need to check his SENT messages. He cant stop people sending him stuff, easily, but if he is sending text out of a similar you probably have a problem. If all conveniently deleted again seems like a prob. I don't delete texts regular so image most others without things to hide don't either.

this!! on a normal morning, tell him you have an issue you'd like to discuss. ask him to put his phone on the table and not touch it. tell him your worries and ask if it's ok to look at his phone. if he says go for it, you've a lot of apologising to do. if he says you cant look, you know exactly what to do. good luck.

[restauranter 10]

this!! on a normal morning, tell him you have an issue you'd like to discuss. ask him to put his phone on the table and not touch it. tell him your worries and ask if it's ok to look at his phone. if he says go for it, you've a lot of apologising to do. if he says you cant look, you know exactly what to do. good luck.

 

if she keep pushing him. he will end up having a second phone just for his bit on the side. in our country we have a saying. ‘as long as he knows where home is, thats all matter‘

what man dont play around ?

[francypants 441]

if she keep pushing him. he will end up having a second phone just for his bit on the side. in our country we have a saying. ‘as long as he knows where home is, thats all matter‘

what man dont play around ?

 

 

Faithful, real men don't play around.......... TURDS do !

[restauranter 10]

Faithful, real men don't play around.......... TURDS do !

 

Well 60%+ English people are turds then?

[lindylou53 18]

if she keep pushing him. he will end up having a second phone just for his bit on the side. in our country we have a saying. ‘as long as he knows where home is, thats all matter‘

what man dont play around ?

 

And what might your country be? You have to be joking! Where does your self-respect go if you 'play around'? More importantly - does it work both ways? Would you be happy to let your partner 'play around'?!