Lap dancing Women not sex objects Demonstration outside townhall today

[eastbank 10]

Unless you happen to be a lad who prefers a more refined destination.

 

prefer spain...but not my choice...

[Phanerothyme 12]

You read Playboy … for the articles?

 

Yes. Some of the best writers in the world have written for Playboy and Esquire. You've probably read your share of articles written for Playboy without even knowing it, as they have been widely republished elsewhere.

 

The soft porn in Playboy is much less interesting than the journalism, which was once (I don't read it now) truly excellent.

[eastbank 10]

By lads you mean beer-laced morons who sneer at more refined activities-Blockheads is the term I would use to describe the mentality?I do it 'cos mi mates do it like!!!!!!

 

no....not quite morons...but we have had our moments...like a laugh and a beer..its not illegal...

we tend to have a jolly up every couple of months...

whether it be home or away...

take it your mates are not beer-laced morons...:hihi:

 

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Have time in blackpool lads

 

cheers mate...we will...but it won't be cheap...:hihi:

[Cyclone 10]

LOL OK, everyone who goes to lapdancing clubs are respectable gentlemen who just appreciate a ladys naked body like a piece of artwork, or like admiring a pedegree horse. Of course they arent dirty old pervs, thats just the odd one or two who bring the reputation down...Hahahaha..

 

PS.. i am also on about people who FREQUENT these places, im well aware of stag do's and one off trips with mates for a laugh. If i had to make regular visits to some seedy old club to stuff money into the thong of a muscly old men to get my kicks, i think i would openly admit I was a perv, so i dunno why you have a problem admitting the same... as i say, theres nothing WRONG with it per se. Each to their own. I cant believe im even debating this!

 

I don't think you even know what perverted means...

 

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Do you honestly believe that those of us who havn't had any connection with those places,are not fully aware of the low opinions some of those male customers have of those women,and how they refer to them.

 

How exactly have you become aware of the opinions without actually having any connection or indeed knowledge of the topic at all?

[Cyclone 10]

So, being paid to "display" your *cough* assets isn't "selling one's body"? How does that logic work?

No more so than being paid to use your body for some other reason.

If there's nothing inherently wrong with selling either physical or mental skills what makes selling your appearance (which applies to many different jobs) wrong?

 

It's still objectifying women, to be ogled by pervs.

If you can find a straight man that doesn't like to look at naked women, then you've found a perv. Perv meaning that it's not normal.

 

It's a similar "excuse" that the men who ogle these women use:-

Oh, sorry, you simply go to the lap-dancing club, to pay 25 quid for a glass of cola, then? And what's that? You read Playboy and Hustler for the articles?

Why is an excuse needed?

[janie48 97]

 

How exactly have you become aware of the opinions without actually having any connection or indeed knowledge of the topic at all?

Are you suggesting only your own personal experiences would give you some kind of advantage,and that equips only you with sense, reasoning and wisdom.

 

I notice you've selected just one part of my post to draw attension to and disregarded the rest as usual, which reminds me of the words of the great Paul Simon "A man hears what he wants to hear and disregards the rest"

Edited February 28, 2013 by janie48

[gnvqsos 10]

No more so than being paid to use your body for some other reason.

If there's nothing inherently wrong with selling either physical or mental skills what makes selling your appearance (which applies to many different jobs) wrong?

If you can find a straight man that doesn't like to look at naked women, then you've found a perv. Perv meaning that it's not normal.

Why is an excuse needed?

 

I find it unusual to opt to view a naked woman in the presence of other men.I think perversion is subtly different from abnormality,although I can see how the two terms are linked.

[Penistone999 10]

I find it unusual to opt to view a naked woman in the presence of other men.I think perversion is subtly different from abnormality,although I can see how the two terms are linked.

 

I take it you never went down the Boozer or working mens club for the sunday dinnertime drink and enjoyed a few pints while watching the strippers before going home for a big dinner then a few hours kip on the sofa.

[gnvqsos 10]

I take it you never went down the Boozer or working mens club for the sunday dinnertime drink and enjoyed a few pints while watching the strippers before going home for a big dinner then a few hours kip on the sofa.

 

Well its not the way I do things but I know a lot of people are happy to tread this path-its a consequence of being a highly respected member of the community who has to be a positive role model,not a bacon roll model.

[eastbank 10]

Well its not the way I do things but I know a lot of people are happy to tread this path-its a consequence of being a highly respected member of the community who has to be a positive role model,not a bacon roll model.

 

nowt wrong with a lady earning a crust...getting her kit off...beats working for a living..:hihi:

[gnvqsos 10]

nowt wrong with a lady earning a crust...getting her kit off...beats working for a living..:hihi:

 

My mum was a dinner lady.

[boyfriday 21]

nowt wrong with a lady earning a crust...getting her kit off...beats working for a living..:hihi:

 

Good job your livelihood doesn't depend on you getting your kit off easty, kids'd be starving down the poorhouse

 

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My mum was a dinner lady.

 

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