I have no friends and I am nearly 18 years old need help

[md00071 10]

I was similar to you at that age. Then I got my first job, and realised pretty soon that work is where most friends are made. The first bloke I spoke to on my first day at work was my Best Man 15 years later. Don't worry about it, seriously. It'll change.

[BritishProud 10]

Mention football, darts and snooker to girls and its usually Goodnight Vienna. Cut the crap and try dating sites, could save you a load of time and wasted nights.

 

Join a local footy team pal, or get involved with your local pub snooker team and pool team. start posting on here and get into deebates, you will make some friends that way.

[gnvqsos 10]

This is the last place to seek advice on such issues.Most people who post on SF will not boast exciting social lives and any suggestions will be untested and highly speculative.I would suggest getting involved in those activities done by your preferred group.To meet young women learn a foreign language,to meet meat-head men join a football club,for man at M&S, a golf-club.You need to think counter-intuitively,as whatever appeals to you will mean you meet lots like yourself,taking you down a social cul-de sac.Personally I have taken up triathlons as the swimming part is an excellent chance to assess both targets and rivals,and if I get fit I should feel a lot better with an endorphin boost.Do you have a bike?

[Mr Tibbs 10]

Finding friends will either happen or it wont. I think it is down to your personality. I had friends as a teenager but as soon as girl friends came along we went our ways. Then I got a job with the local authority and met some real nice people. We socialised until again they met with girls and we went our way although we do send each other Christmas cards and may bump into each other on our travels and catch up with time.

 

I met my wife at 19 and married at 22. Best pal I have ever had (apart from my Labrador). I have a small family and prefer it that way. As to wanting friends? no, to much of a let down in the past and although I will help a friend I would never expect help back and would never ask for it.

 

Like someone above said, I have acquaintances and prefer it that way.

[MJSullivan 10]

aww mate I'll be ya friend lol xx

[old cossack 10]

Why not take up an hobby like model making or Urbexing? Why do I say this you could start a group with theses hobbies and make friends that way there only examples. Or you could try the pub at the bottom of the Moor.

[Tradescanthia 10]

Join a local footy team pal, or get involved with your local pub snooker team and pool team. start posting on here and get into deebates, you will make some friends that way.

 

:hihi::hihi: Thats it !!!!! Keep away from women, a load of us wish we had. You aint missing nothing mate...:hihi:

[Tradescanthia 10]

This is the last place to seek advice on such issues.Most people who post on SF will not boast exciting social lives and any suggestions will be untested and highly speculative.I would suggest getting involved in those activities done by your preferred group.To meet young women learn a foreign language,to meet meat-head men join a football club,for man at M&S, a golf-club.You need to think counter-intuitively,as whatever appeals to you will mean you meet lots like yourself,taking you down a social cul-de sac.Personally I have taken up triathlons as the swimming part is an excellent chance to assess both targets and rivals,and if I get fit I should feel a lot better with an endorphin boost.Do you have a bike?

 

Yes thats what you need, the local 'bike'. :hihi::hihi: