Is a sex less relationship 'normal'?

[hmr44 10]

Originally posted by fox20thc

OLD! oh Sunshine what is old? Is it assumed that once you get past a certain benchmark in life you stop doing it? And is it always the ladies who go 'off it' I wonder?

 

Some blokes can get a bit dull in the trouser dept when they get older too.

 

I meant older Sorry!

[Preacher Man 10]

Originally posted by MTheo

and how old would a toyboy be for you? lol. im curious

 

forr sunny d that would literally mean a boy who stil plays with toys..

 

 

A sexless relationship is not normal! if there is no sexual attraction then it is more of a friendship. No sex willl frustrate one party and if it doesnt thats an even worse sign!!

 

It is the usually the beginning of the end, or it will carry on and end in divorce or infidelity somewhere along the line.

[banesmabes 10]

Originally posted by Preacher Man

A sexless relationship is not normal! if there is no sexual attraction then it is more of a friendship. No sex willl frustrate one party and if it doesnt thats an even worse sign!!

 

It is the usually the beginning of the end, or it will carry on and end in divorce or infidelity somewhere along the line.

 

For you this may be the case, but there is no reason why two other people may have a sexless marriage and be perfectly happy with it. Too many people are brainwashed by a society obsessed with sex into thinking that having a low or even non-existant sex drive is not normal, whereas a high sex drive is healthy. This is not the case - everyone is different, there is no 'normal'.

[Preacher Man 10]

where going to have to agree to disagree.

 

sex with somebody you love is the most intimate you can be with each other. its when you feel the most connected to them and looking into their eyes is incredibly intense.

 

if you dont want to share that with someone i would have to question why?

[intooblivion 10]

Have a look at this thread

 

Thread: What's happened to the male sex drive?!

 

Fairly interesting

[banesmabes 10]

Originally posted by Preacher Man

where going to have to agree to disagree.

 

sex with somebody you love is the most intimate you can be with each other. its when you feel the most connected to them and looking into their eyes is incredibly intense.

 

if you dont want to share that with someone i would have to question why?

 

Because there's much more to life and relationships than sex? Because you have a low sex drive? Because you think that sex is over-rated? Because you don't want to risk pregnancy and don't want to/can't use contraception? All perfectly legitimate reasons.

 

Again, that's just your opinion/view, it doesn't mean that everyone should be having sex because otherwise their relationship is meaningless. Others may think other things are more intimate (or intense) - e.g. just sleeping together and holding one another.