My tribute to my beautifull wife 1963 - 2011

[woze 10]

I would like to thank everyone for your very kind comments and i will be updating my letter on here within the next cple of weeks,

thank you everyone and you can find me on FB just search for

wayne wilburn

[felix24 10]

Crikey, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, but thank you for writing such an honest lovely post - she's been a very lucky lady to have such a loving caring family, and she clearly knew that.

 

People will tell you time heals - it doesn't - you just deal with grief differently in different stages over time, making it a little easier year by year, try to think of all the GOOD times which there have obviously been plenty - if the sad times come into your mind switch to thinking about a great time that will stay with you forever..

 

 

My perfectly healthy dad dropped dead last September, whilst telling a joke, giving his speech, at my sisters wedding, in front of his whole friends and family, kids included.. it was and still is like someones ripped my heart in two as I idolised my dad and we were very close.. some people say that's the best way to go - quick, but thats good for them but not good for us left behind -

 

so in your case you did exactly the right thing by treasuring every moment with Jacky and catering to her every need, and she will have passed knowing that the kids are in very safe hands with a very loyal loving dad.

 

I wanted to say all the things I felt in my heart at dads funeral - but i couldnt even breathe never mind speak, I do find that writing my feelings down and sharing them with friends/family really helps too, so posting on here was a good thing for you to do.

 

God bless. Fx

[mikeG 16]

I've just read this post and am almost at a loss for words. What a lovely tribute to your wife. Part of Jacky lives on - in your children, so I sincerely hope that your family help you cope and make things bearable from hereon.

[walkertelecoms 16]

As long as the departed remain in our hearts they are for ever.

[charlie2 10]

Hello, I am really sorry to hear you lose your beautiful wife but you are not alone here, we are a group who knows what cancer means :(and we would like to help you getting better day by day....

If you would like to chat we are waitin for you on Fb.

Have a look on FaceToFaceWithCancer

or just

Face to Face With Cancer.

 

Hope you hear from you soon!

Monika

[busybee1983 10]

what a beautiful post. May your loved ones rest in peace. I intend to cherish my loved ones each and every moment of every day x

[Ellybum 10]

Jacky was as lucky to have you, as you were to have Jacky - such closeness is hard to find.

 

Take comfort in the memories you shared and the children you have, and you will smile again, I promise you.