Defoe   10 #1 Posted September 30, 2010 (edited) We all know that some people are more tactile than others, but there has to be a borderline between tactilenatism (I just invented that word:)) and indecency. There is a very tactile lady where I work and she is always being touchy feely with everyone both male and female, but today she approached me from behind and patted my butt saying " Guess who, how are you doing". I did not say anything impulsively but later thought that she should not do that! If I had done it to a lady she would have claimed sexual harassment! Edited September 30, 2010 by Defoe Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Bulgarian   10 #2 Posted September 30, 2010 I have no limits Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Merry_Legs   10 #3 Posted September 30, 2010 I think she definitely crossed a line. ask your colleagues if she is as forward with them.  If so, I'd get someone to have a quiet word, if that doesn't work - keep out of her way! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Defoe   10 #4 Posted September 30, 2010 (edited) I think she definitely crossed a line. ask your colleagues if she is as forward with them. If so, I'd get someone to have a quiet word, if that doesn't work - keep out of her way!  I have heard on the grapevine that she thinks that I have got a " Gorgeous butt" and I think that her actions may be related to this. I am just pleased that she has not heard about my other lovely bits or it could all get a little embarrasing. Edited September 30, 2010 by Defoe Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Agent Orange   11 #5 Posted September 30, 2010 Next time she does it, return the favour and see how she reacts. Disclaimer - I take no responsibility if said action results in a disciplinary Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Defoe   10 #6 Posted September 30, 2010 Next time she does it, return the favour and see how she reacts. Disclaimer - I take no responsibility if said action results in a disciplinary  Actually she has one or two good points! I suppose I could upstage her! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Agent Orange   11 #7 Posted September 30, 2010 Actually she has one or two good points! I suppose I could upstage her!  There you go then. Next time, go for it Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Defoe   10 #8 Posted September 30, 2010 There you go then. Next time, go for it  Right or left? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Bulgarian   10 #9 Posted September 30, 2010 Try working in a French office, it's like working with a bunch of octopusses Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Defoe   10 #10 Posted September 30, 2010 Try working in a French office, it's like working with a bunch of octopusses  What is your experience in French offices and how did you gain it? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Bulgarian   10 #11 Posted September 30, 2010 What is your experience in French offices and how did you gain it?  They are very touchy and strokey and kissy. I worked in our Paris office for a few weeks, it was quite nice. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Defoe   10 #12 Posted September 30, 2010 They are very touchy and strokey and kissy. I worked in our Paris office for a few weeks, it was quite nice.  Are you male or female? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...