Am I just being paranoid?

[boyfriday 21]

Have you been spying on me Boyfer ?

 

Without wishing to pry, are we talking about erectile dysfunction here ?

 

We don't talk about such things, here

[boyfriday 21]

Do you spend time together? Do you still have sex with eath other? Do you ever tell each other that you love each other?

 

Hahahahaha! Nice of you to specify.

 

He's an old romantic shaz, of the Alf Garnett style

[Lacie-Leah 10]

100 mmls of viagra in is coco when he's not looking, then jump up and down naked waving your floppy bits about in front of him.....sorted

 

 

lmfao, i take you have exprianced this haha

[Forumosaurus 10]

I stopped saying romantic things after about 3 weeks, we're going to be hitting the 2 year mark soon.

 

He could be bored of you but, he might just...feel a tit saying lovey dovey stuff, like I do.

[CraftyBob 10]

We men can be quite rubbish at showing our feelings. Also: Being laid back could just be a sign that he's really comfortable with where your relationship.

 

In my opinion, a lot of things go wrong simply because a lack of communcation leads to one or both of the people involved having to 'guess' what the other is feeling. The inevitable outcome of this is almost always to fear the worst.

 

Do you guys ever talk about your relationship? Is sitting down every now and again (could be every few months - doesn't have to be every week) something you are both comfortable with?

 

If not, then your future together could get a little confusing.

 

My advice to you would be to meet up with him in a neutral place (go to the park at the weekend, maybe?) and talk about how you feel. Keep it relaxed, but don't try to disguise what you're doing. Being upfront about these things is the only way. If you're stuck for how to start the conversation, I suggest you simply ask "Can I talk to you?"

 

If he says "No" then that's the end of the conversation and - if you want - the relationship.

 

If he says "Yes" then tell him how you feel. Keep it positive - the things you like about him / the relationship - the things you used to enjoy doing together - that you would very much like things to go in a certain direction in your relationship.

 

See how he reacts - I think that will tell you pretty much all you need to know about how he feels.

 

Sorry - post turned into a bit of an essay, there.

 

Bob

[Rupert_Baehr 10]

100 mmls of viagra in is coco when he's not looking, then jump up and down naked waving your floppy bits about in front of him.....sorted

 

Just don't mention his nuts!

 

'Coco - nuts' and it's a Crown Court job!"

[Treatment 10]

We don't talk about such things, here

 

Is this why I am tarred with the epithet '' soft lad '' ?

[*binty* 10]

Maybe he's waiting for you to do romahtic things for him? Some men like it, some don't.

[melthebell 862]

im off work today so i got up got the kids ready for school, made their dinner etc, took the kids to school, and walked the dog at the same time, brought a few bits home from the shop.

 

asked the missus if she fancied going back to bed for a bit ...........she knocked me back saying she normally goes to her mates house on thursdays

 

shes gone

[Treatment 10]

im off work today so i got up got the kids ready for school, made their dinner etc, took the kids to school, and walked the dog at the same time, brought a few bits home from the shop.

 

asked the missus if she fancied going back to bed for a bit ...........she knocked me back saying she normally goes to her mates house on thursdays

 

shes gone

 

'' Into every life a little rain must fall ''.

[Greavsy 10]

im off work today so i got up got the kids ready for school, made their dinner etc, took the kids to school, and walked the dog at the same time, brought a few bits home from the shop.

 

asked the missus if she fancied going back to bed for a bit ...........she knocked me back saying she normally goes to her mates house on thursdays

 

shes gone

 

Oh dear Mel

 

Times must be hard for you!

 

Day time TV for you.

[melthebell 862]

Oh dear Mel

 

Times must be hard for you!

 

Day time TV for you.

nah im tidying up my cardiacs mp3 albums discography instead