Ladies does it bother you if your fella looks at porn?

[lady muck 10]

Last night I found some pics on my other halfs phone & I want to know if I am over reacting, We have argued over this before and last night we had a hugh row as I find it degrading & I feel as if I am not good enough.............am I right to think like this or am I over reacting

[lubylou 10]

If there just pics of women from a mag or something id say yuor over reacting but if its someone he knows, well thats different.

[Tess 10]

I don't mind him watching porn at all - it's almost healthy (as long as it's nothing er.. weird!) But like lubylou said, if it was somebody he knew, I would probably be cross. Although pictures hardly count as porn..do they?

[GordonBennet 10]

Men like looking at pictures of naked women. Always have done, always will do. It doesn't mean they'd rather be with the models than their partners. Get over it!

[babyboom 10]

It doesn't bother me in the slightest.

[hennypenny 10]

Doesn't worry me at all.

[sarah1 10]

Last night I found some pics on my other halfs phone & I want to know if I am over reacting, We have argued over this before and last night we had a hugh row as I find it degrading & I feel as if I am not good enough.............am I right to think like this or am I over reacting

 

I feel the same way as you about things like this..

I know that these pictures are just that, pictures..

Its us that are feeling insecure, the men are just being men..

How to change feeling like this ?? I don't know..

My OH took the pictures off his phone when I told him of my displeasure about it, so I'm lucky that way I guess..

[julado 10]

Doesn't bother me at all. All his porn is gay stuff

[lubylou 10]

Doesn't bother me at all. All his porn is gay stuff

 

Me thinks you need to change your man

[lady muck 10]

I feel the same way as you about things like this..

I know that these pictures are just that, pictures.. Its us that are feeling insecure, the men are just being men..

How to change feeling like this ?? I don't know..

My OH took the pictures off his phone when I told him of my displeasure about it, so I'm lucky that way I guess..

 

I think if I am being honest it is because I am feeling abit down about myself lately thats why I feel insecure about it. The first time I told him how I felt he did stop but admitted last night one of the guys at work sent it him & he forgot to delete it off, I feel stupid asking everyones opinion on here, but just needed someone to talk to about it, so thanks everyone for reading it & for replying, I need to get myself sorted I think

[KTHFB 10]

Doesn't bother me in the slightest. If I had a fella that is. Sometimes it's quite nice to watch together.....

[alexjf 10]

last night i found some pics on my other halfs phone & i want to know if i am over reacting, we have argued over this before and last night we had a hugh row as i find it degrading & i feel as if i am not good enough.............am i right to think like this or am i over reacting

 

you had a hugh row.

Is it a gay thing then ?