My hubby and Pornography

[epiphany 10]

well it does to some extent. And yes porn can be, it can lead to the person who looks at it, wanting to get more into it, looking at more than they were and eventually creating the addiction that some have.

 

Sounds like the "gateway drug" theory applied to porn if you ask me!

 

Porn is only used by most guys to aid their masturbatory needs... needs they would aim to fulfill at regular intervals anyway, porn or no porn.

[Suffragette1 10]

i will try that test !!!

 

Be careful, you wouldn't want him tripping over the mouse wire!

 

Seriously, I think pathman is right. And if your OH is the one who usually instigates sex, I would suggest that you started to initiate things yourself. Pathman's suggestion is a good one and a tried and tested success. Even better, don't go upstairs, announce it downstairs and do the deed there.

[*carrie* 10]

You misunderstand me carrie. Beyond stating the obvious I was saying that sitting down in front of the PC with her fella might not be the best thing for the OP if shes feeling jealous or upset by the porn. Its unlikely to put her mind at rest.

 

Probably not... But the whole idea of being jealous of porn is more of a problem than him indulging in harmless fantasy once in a blue moon.

[Glamrock 10]

Does anyone else hubby look at this when on the internet and then hide it from them?

 

Been with my hubby for 7 years now and just found out he has been viewing it, do not know what to think about this.

Maybe he's trying to tell you something..Try enrolling as an agent for Ann Summers and bin the bloomers

[Dave Brent 10]

That's good advice for any chick.

 

 

Dave

[Suffragette1 10]

Maybe he's trying to tell you something..Try enrolling as an agent for Ann Summers and bin the bloomers

 

Why is everyone holding the OP responsible? Maybe he is not up to much in the sack and suffers from premature ejaculation and his wife is totally disatisfied and now he's practising to see whether he can delay gratification.

 

God, you people make so many assumptions.

[Jason Bourne 11]

Why is everyone holding the OP responsible? Maybe he is not up to much in the sack and suffers from premature ejaculation and his wife is totally disatisfied and now he's practising to see whether he can delay gratification.

 

God, you people make so many assumptions.

 

She would have told us that surely, instead of telling us she gets it three times a week?

 

edit - And don't call me God

[WoodForWood 10]

God, you people make so many assumptions.

 

It's the desire to be funny overriding the ability to comprehend! :hihi:

[Suffragette1 10]

She would have told us that surely, instead of telling us she gets it three times a week?

 

edit - And don't call me God

 

Quality Jase and not quantity.

[Grandad.Malky 11]

You may want to explain to your husband that his browsing activities are monitored and profiled by the IP address and this is related to your household.

 

And……………… are you suggesting something is wrong, will the house be blacklisted in some way, of what interest would it be to anybody other than spammers.

[happyhippy 11]

Why is everyone holding the OP responsible? Maybe he is not up to much in the sack and suffers from premature ejaculation and his wife is totally disatisfied and now he's practising to see whether he can delay gratification.

 

God, you people make so many assumptions.

 

That would imply that they'd talked about it, which they clearly haven't.

[bananagirl 10]

I just posted to disagree with all the pervos who insist that secretly watching internet porn is a normal thing to do ...oh sorry, did I say pervos, I meant people ...

 

 

The OP may be interested in the marital status of those giving advice. The credibility of happily married posters will certainly hold sway over old internet spinsters living alone with a bunch of cats.