Jabberwocky Posted March 14, 2008 Posted March 14, 2008 BAD title, but I couldnt think of anything better, so mods... if you can think of a better one, I dont mind it being changed. There was a lady on TV last night who was trying to find the father of her baby, she had DNA tested eight blokes and was now onto the ninth... None were the daddy. One of the blokes ranted that the lady was... "of bad morality" (Family forum) and called her all the names under the sun. He admitted that he KNEW the lady was sleeping with various other men, and attested that he was a good, decent man who simply slept with her because she was "Easy." Now, I dont remember the details, but this man who admitted to sleeping with anyone who would have him insisted he was of good character- it came to light that he had slept with 40 women in the space of two months. The lady with the baby had slept with 12 men in that same period of time. She was a worthless tart, he was a decent, hard working man who was simply out for "Some fun." Im aware that when a man sleeps around, he becomes a bit of a lothario, a good guy, a bit of a lad, yet when a female does the same.... well, we know what people call her, but why? Why are men thought of as Jack the lads when they sleep around, yet women are given bad names? Have things changed? Do women and men who like to... Dabble have better responses from people now? Or, in this day of AIDS and Hepatitis and all the other juicy STDs, are they thought of as evil and dirty? What do you think? Tell me. I demand that you tell me, or Ill... Impregnate your budgie then deny Im the father of any eggs that are layed!
foxforcefive Posted March 14, 2008 Posted March 14, 2008 I think it's insecurity. Men like to have inexperienced women so they have nothing to compare their sexual technique with. They call promiscuous women slags because they know they're probably not up to the job.
Moonbird Posted March 14, 2008 Posted March 14, 2008 40 Women in 2 months thats not bad going is it? suprised that he had time to go to work Its a case of the age old double standards isn't it? if he was so great and she was so errr not great, and he slept with her cause she was easy what does that make him? Oh well I know what I mean anyway
Jabberwocky Posted March 14, 2008 Author Posted March 14, 2008 I think it's insecurity. Men like to have inexperienced women so they have nothing to compare their sexual technique with. They call promiscuous women slags because they know they're probably not up to the job. God if it wasnt for the "slags" in my past I wouldnt have learned a thing about sex Long live the slappers I say!
Jabberwocky Posted March 14, 2008 Author Posted March 14, 2008 40 Women in 2 months thats not bad going is it? suprised that he had time to go to work Its a case of the age old double standards isn't it? if he was so great and she was so errr not great, and he slept with her cause she was easy what does that make him? Oh well I know what I mean anyway I know what you mean, and no he didnt work. I dont think he had the energy. One of the things I meant to ask and you just reminded me was: What do people think of him? What does that make him?
Tricky Posted March 14, 2008 Posted March 14, 2008 What I don't understand is how come there's loads of blokes who have slept with 50+ women but there are no women who have slept with 50+ blokes. So have the blokes actually been sleeping with each other by mistake?
Moonbird Posted March 14, 2008 Posted March 14, 2008 What do people think of him? What does that make him? Well thats easy, it makes him a two faced pig with double standards, who wasn't very happy because it looked like his lifestyle might be curtailed because of the woman becoming pregnant...simple!
Glennis Posted March 14, 2008 Posted March 14, 2008 What I don't understand is how come there's loads of blokes who have slept with 50+ women but there are no women who have slept with 50+ blokes. So have the blokes actually been sleeping with each other by mistake? Yes, this is probably the answer to this age old mystery .. most blokes wouldn't notice after a few pints.
purdyamos Posted March 14, 2008 Posted March 14, 2008 We've come so far in changing attitudes regarding the roles of men and women, but the old attitudes to this type of thing have hardly changed at all in many cases. Personally I don't have any time for the male-slags-are-real-men crap, but the double standard is still very pervasive, and not even in extreme cases like the one Jabbers describes. What I don't understand is how the man can be so oblivious to what a complete hypocrite he is.
discodown Posted March 14, 2008 Posted March 14, 2008 The double standard makes me laugh. It seems men want to have their fun but if a woman does the same shes a disgrace. Personally i have nothing but respect for women who give it up on the first date.
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