Jabberwocky Posted March 13, 2008 Posted March 13, 2008 My OH just went through my coat pockets! Ok, nothing sinister, she just nicked my chewing gum, she doesnt rifle through my coat pockets but my ex used to do it regularly, looking for evidence of infidelity or money she could swipe. I didnt mind her taking the money, Im always going to the shops and forgetting to take any money thats left out and handing it over to the OH, really I dont. The fact that she distrusted me and was convinced that I was being unfaithful to her wasnt funny though, I hated that, in fact, I told my bit on the side and she agreed it was deplorable behaviour! Ladies, are you a pocket rifler? Lads, do you live with a pick pocket?
melthebell Posted March 13, 2008 Posted March 13, 2008 do you rifle through your other halfs freshly emptied ferrets?
babychickens Posted March 13, 2008 Posted March 13, 2008 I routinely rifle through my chap's pockets. Otherwise all (and I do mean all) of my clothes would be covered in washed tissue fluff. I've been known to put a fiver back in the pocket and put it through the wash though in the name of scientific research - how many times can a fiver be washed before the local shop won't accept it? Answer - dunno, but I've got to 5 washes before and they didn't bat an eyelid.
Titian Posted March 13, 2008 Posted March 13, 2008 Nah I don't...... but my kiddies pockets are far more telling and interesting
Quagmire Posted March 13, 2008 Posted March 13, 2008 The worst is when they want to go through your mobile phone...
babychickens Posted March 13, 2008 Posted March 13, 2008 do you rifle through your other halfs freshly emptied ferrets? I would never let my chap wear fur.
Jabberwocky Posted March 13, 2008 Author Posted March 13, 2008 do you rifle through your other halfs freshly emptied ferrets? Only if theyre still wriggling. I like the maggots.
medusa Posted March 13, 2008 Posted March 13, 2008 I go through trouser pockets prior to them going in the wash and every now and then when taking the dog out for a walk I'll put on his coat instead of mine and put my hand in his pocket for a poo bag. Relationships are based on trust- if I didn't trust him I wouldn't have a relationship with him.
Farmboy Posted March 13, 2008 Posted March 13, 2008 My fiancee can look for whatever she likes as I have nothing to hide. She wouldn't anyway and if she did there'd be a good reason, like looking for house-keys or something. It doesn't bother me as we trust each other completely. My ex' was a nightmare for it. Constantly checking my phone messages, checking my emails and my msn chat history. I think the thing that wound me up the most was that she didn't trust me and was constantly trying to find something to prove to herself that she wasn't just completely paranoid. I'd never given her a reason not to trust me though. She was just mind-numbingly insecure.
foxforcefive Posted March 13, 2008 Posted March 13, 2008 I only rifle prior to wash like medusa, cos I'm sick of the flecky bits of washed tissue covering the contents of the wash. If I thought it was necessary to look for evidence it's time to say goodbye.
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