Can getting back with an ex work out?

[designmea]

...as for opening up an account to trap him. Its not a good idea, it will leave you feeling bad about yourself, trust me!

[purdyamos]

You don't need to bother with entrapment (it's a very bad idea anyway) - here's why. Whatever you say he's been doing in terms of chatting and messaging with other women, which in isolation might raise suspicions, the fact that he has simultaneously done this:

 

the other day I realised he had deleted me from his facebook friends list. When I asked him why he said it was because some of his mates had joined and he didn't want them perving and sending me messages.

 

...is a big red flag. That sounds like such outrageous double standards, and so suspicious and controlling in itself, I'd break it off. This isn't a relationship (at least not a healthy one).

[Dude111]

Good luck RELOST!!!!

 

This can work out IF YOU REALLY WANT IT TO and i sense you do

 

Peace and love to you both

[waxonwaxoff]

...as for opening up an account to trap him. Its not a good idea, it will leave you feeling bad about yourself, trust me!

 

If you feel you need to catch him out then what is left of the relationship anyway? You dont trust him and he is keeping secrets from you. If he sleeps with someone else it dosent really make much diffrence as his head is already somewhere and anywhere else. Dont stay with someone who makes you feel like this. Be on your own or with someone that loves and respects you.