Salster! Posted March 2, 2008 Posted March 2, 2008 All I can say is:- Without trust, there is no relationship.
relost Posted March 2, 2008 Author Posted March 2, 2008 If you aren't serious then you shouldn't be worried about who he's talking to online (depending on your definition of serious, of course). And not only is it entrapment, but it's a little bit weird, too. If you don't trust him, get rid, I'd say. ETA: Sorry, 'weird' sounds rude. I meant, using online sites to assess your relationship isn't a great idea, in whatever way. I didn't mean you were weird. It's serious so much as we had a discussion and he said he wanted me to be his girlfriend and be together properly. I'm worried cos regardless of us being serious or not, he is meant to be with me. Is flirting online acceptable, even if they don't meet up? Thanks for the explanation on wierd lol
relost Posted March 2, 2008 Author Posted March 2, 2008 Is this the same guy you posted about a while ago the Relationship advice please dont judge post?. If not you seem to have some bad luck with men. I hope everyone on the forum today having relationship problems all find someone nice soon. Yeah the same guy, Im still not 100% sure. Someone close to me said I was just analysing things too much. I'm beginning to think I'm really paranoid!
Chopsie Posted March 2, 2008 Posted March 2, 2008 I got back with an ex, and it didn't work out... I forgot the cardinal rule:- "Remember why your ex- is your ex-!" True, true, true. I got back with an ex after he begged me to do so - we'd been together for 8 years. 6 months later he ended things - I think he only did it so HE could be the one to finally do the dumping. An ex is an ex for a reason.
Saff Posted March 2, 2008 Posted March 2, 2008 It's serious so much as we had a discussion and he said he wanted me to be his girlfriend and be together properly. I'm worried cos regardless of us being serious or not, he is meant to be with me. Is flirting online acceptable, even if they don't meet up? Thanks for the explanation on wierd lol Sounds like he's hurting your feelings and making you feel unimportant- personally I don't think that's a great way to be feeling, whether or not his behaviour is thought of as acceptable by other people. Surely you're better off with someone who makes you feel special?
relost Posted March 2, 2008 Author Posted March 2, 2008 Sounds like he's hurting your feelings and making you feel unimportant- personally I don't think that's a great way to be feeling, whether or not his behaviour is thought of as acceptable by other people. Surely you're better off with someone who makes you feel special? Thanks for this. You got it in one
designmea Posted March 2, 2008 Posted March 2, 2008 Dont trust a guy who gets his kicks on social networking sites! My boyfriend has 'internet cheated' on me 4 times since we got together, by finding exs and old friends online. It makes you feel rubbish, and its really not worth it!
chloe01 Posted March 2, 2008 Posted March 2, 2008 Just move on and find someone who thinks of your feelings and not his own.
lyndix Posted March 2, 2008 Posted March 2, 2008 You already know my take on this mate. You really do deserve better than what he`s giving you! Take care x
medusa Posted March 2, 2008 Posted March 2, 2008 If you don't trust him, why are you even considering a relationship with him?
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