Jabberwocky Posted February 12, 2008 Share Posted February 12, 2008 I prefer to make victims, rather than be one. I dont think Ive ever been a victim of anything, its possible to get a good experience out of everything. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cressida Posted February 12, 2008 Author Share Posted February 12, 2008 I prefer to make victims, rather than be one. I dont think Ive ever been a victim of anything, its possible to get a good experience out of everything. what sort of good experience could come out of stalking for example? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
troubledjoe Posted February 12, 2008 Share Posted February 12, 2008 i'm sure you have been a victim of something in your life time. I think were all victims of society..... and i don't think it's possible get good experiences out of everything. I imagine a child thats been sexually abused by somebody would fail to find any good in that situation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Preacher Man Posted February 12, 2008 Share Posted February 12, 2008 someone called troubledjoe is on thin ice posting on a thread about being a victim Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
troubledjoe Posted February 12, 2008 Share Posted February 12, 2008 haha but im not saying i've never been a victim. plus it's from a song by "the smiths" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jabberwocky Posted February 12, 2008 Share Posted February 12, 2008 what sort of good experience could come out of stalking for example? Lots of them, at the very least its funny in years to come. Besides, Im the sort of person who drives them insane, I had a stalker in 2000 that I mentioned to you once and by the time Id finished with her she couldnt tell her botty from her humrous. The trick is to ENJOY it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
troubledjoe Posted February 12, 2008 Share Posted February 12, 2008 soz pal, your trying to hard to be blase about negative situations. suggests to me that your more likely to be a victim than a lot of people on here, and as a result of being said victim you've developed the defence mechanism that your displaying to us today..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jabberwocky Posted February 12, 2008 Share Posted February 12, 2008 Nope. I honestly cant think of a single instance in my life where Ive been a victim. If I could, Id mention it here, its possible to turn anything to your advantage, just enjoy it and dont let it get to you at worst and at best, learn from it, but dont ever let it grind you down!. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
troubledjoe Posted February 12, 2008 Share Posted February 12, 2008 seriously then... tell me how a rape victim could turn the situation of having a strange man holding a knife to her throat and then forcing her to have sex against her will to her advantage? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jabberwocky Posted February 12, 2008 Share Posted February 12, 2008 seriously then... tell me how a rape victim could turn the situation of having a strange man holding a knife to her throat and then forcing her to have sex against her will to her advantage? Seriously, Im not sure, Ive never been a rape victim but I was giving my experiences, not the experiences of others. Im sure I could tap out a list of bad things that have happened to me over the years and the list would be as long as your arm, but we all have to learn to handle our bad stuff in our own way. Me? I laugh at it or learn from it, thats what life is about, overcoming bad stuff and beating it. If youre a victim, you arent progressing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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