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How do you get back on the dating game?

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after spending several months coming to terms with a partners betrayal i think its time to try dating again, problem is, i have absolutly no idea where to start, so as the question states,how do i get back on the dating game??

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It's not easy, I agree. I wasn't a bit interested in dating after my long-term, live-in relationship went very wrong. I waited more than a year before accepting a date because I didn't want a rebound relationship, I had a hard time trusting and I felt really bad about myself.

 

I guess I had the best luck by going out with co-ed groups of friends; it gave me a chance to meet men without the pressure of being on a date.

 

Probably my best advice is to be open to trying new things and making new friends without worrying about getting a date out of it. None of my dates have turned into romance yet, but I've had a blast and made some wonderful friends.

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Best way to go about it is not to look for it.

 

Desperation has a smell to it and puts people off. Just get out in the world and enjoy yourself.

 

Que Sera Sera!

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get a decent personality?

 

do you know me??? just wondering how you can make a statement like that without actually knowing a person which btw, dont say a great deal good about your personality

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The way to go about it is to talk to people- lots of people. In person, online, at classes, at the gym, on the bus...

 

The most important factor in meeting someone that you would like to go out with is to meet enough people to start with. They aren't going to come looking for you in your living room (except in an online sense of course) so at some point your life has to include meeting and talking to people.

 

Once you've met lots of people the next step is to actually say yes to some of them, and to look like you're going to say yes enough so that you get asked (or summon up the courage to do it yourself- that makes some of the men run away and hide though).

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