slimsid2000 Â Â 10 #1 Posted May 20, 2005 Choosing between The Empire Bar and Champs which is the best of the two to meet a proper girlfriend (ie, not a one night stand). Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Lucy_Smith   10 #2 Posted May 20, 2005 What has made you narrow it down to these two out of interest??? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
speeed   10 #3 Posted May 20, 2005 You dont just meet someone and they become your girlfriend really do you so does it matter where you meet them i the first place? If you want them to be a long term thing then your going to have to take them somewhere and not just meet them, so really where ever you usually meet ladies. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Phanerothyme   12 #4 Posted May 20, 2005 With an avatar like that, I don't think it will be anyone from the forum..... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Cyclone   10 #5 Posted May 20, 2005 didn't you start a thread about this ages ago and the general advice was that you won't ever find a girlfriend by meeting someone in a bar. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
slimsid2000 Â Â 10 #6 Posted May 20, 2005 Why? What's wrong with my avatar? I am hetrosexual you know. Â As to why I narrowed it down it is just that those are the two places i have tried in the past to meet girls. I don't have any attachment to those two places. if anybody can sugest anywhere better please do. Â Maybe I am wrong but I always assumed that some bars/clubs were more for people looking to pick up a one-night stand and some bars/clubs were not. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
speeed   10 #7 Posted May 20, 2005 I dont think people go places just looking for one night stands and others if they want a relationship! Its more to do with the two people that meet that the place that there in! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Lucy_Smith   10 #8 Posted May 20, 2005 Originally posted by speeed I dont think people go places just looking for one night stands and others if they want a relationship! Its more to do with the two people that meet that the place that there in!  I'd agree. Most bars and clubs are going to have a mixture of girls who are just looking for one night stands and girls who want boyfriends. What is this need for a girlfriend though? What's the hurry? Next time you are out with your mates get chatting to a girl, ask for a number and then leave. Don't sleep with her even if she seems keen. Then leave it a few days and give her a call, have a chat and if you really seem to get on ask her out on a date. If that goes well then go on a few more dates and if you really get on then you can move on to properly being together. But don't try to force things...be confident on your own and you will find a girlfriend when you are least expecting it Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Cyclone   10 #9 Posted May 20, 2005 there was some good advice when you started this (now rather long) thread Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Bedhead   10 #10 Posted May 20, 2005 Originally posted by Lucy_Smith I'd agree. Most bars and clubs are going to have a mixture of girls who are just looking for one night stands and girls who want boyfriends. What is this need for a girlfriend though? What's the hurry? Next time you are out with your mates get chatting to a girl, ask for a number and then leave. Don't sleep with her even if she seems keen. Then leave it a few days and give her a call, have a chat and if you really seem to get on ask her out on a date. If that goes well then go on a few more dates and if you really get on then you can move on to properly being together. But don't try to force things...be confident on your own and you will find a girlfriend when you are least expecting it  Wow just like your signature suggests you really do have solutions to every problem! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
*Ryan* Â Â 11 #11 Posted May 20, 2005 when i was single i always went out to have fun and chill, if u want a 'girlfriend' girls love confidence, if u dont feel it, act it.. trust me.. cant go wrong Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
speeed   10 #12 Posted May 20, 2005 Someone agrees with me!! I must be having a good day, just hope it lasts for tonight. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...