Guest Mr. Teatime   #1 Posted September 21, 2003 Hi, I'm a 21 yr old student in Sheffield, I live in Walkley, basically I'm looking for a place to socialise. I don't like traditional clubs and pubs (in the sense that they play crap music and everyoine's there to pull someone), nor do I like going out to smoke or get drunk (since I don't smoke or drink!). I'd just like to go out to somewhere where it's a friendly atmosphere, nice people. I think you could call my tastes 'alternative'. I occasionally went to the fuzzclub at Sheffield Union but it got a bit boring - my music tastes are very varied (favourite band are Queen, but I'll listen to anything that's good, I'm not one of those students who lives for the 1970s). So any recommendations....? Thanks, Jon Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Zamo   10 #2 Posted September 24, 2003 Nope... it appears nobody knows anywhere to go that doesn't require drinking, smoking or listening to crap music!  I suggest you take up drinking. Start by rubbing lager into your clothes to get used to the smell. Then try rubbing it on your gums to familiarise yourself with the taste. Once comfortable with that, then you are ready to progress to the swallowing stage. Just a little to start with, but before you know it you'll be swigging 10 pints of Stella's a night down the boozer listening to any old crap on the juke box and your social life with have improved tenfold.  Good luck. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
*Twinkle*   10 #3 Posted September 24, 2003 Errrmmm well I guess a good place to meet people who are nice and friendly would be at the Classic Rock bar on the 2nd of October.... ~ Forum meet up  Now if I was going I'd offer to sit with you and down some orange juices, but I'm not...so erm... well I hope that helps anyways! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Guest Mr. Teatime   #4 Posted September 24, 2003 Well I used to drink, when I first started university I used to do the whole 'social' thing, but I don't think I can ever say I really enjoyed drinking. Only reason for ever doing it was peer pressure. I just got fed up with it. It costs money, I felt terrible in the morning, whilst drinking I never really enjoyed it anyway, and it never really got me anywhere socially anyway. Whilst the media loves to portray students as heavy drinkers, who whilst not drinking are smoking cannabis all the time or doing a load of other drugs, not all of us (well, there's me...) are like that. It all seems a bit pointless to me, also I don't see why I should 'have' to do these things to be a likeable person. Note - I don't have problems with what other people do, the only thing I don't like really is sitting right next to someone who is smoking as it makes my clothes stink and I have to have a shower when I get home to get rid of the smell. I am more confident in talking about this stuff since I found out that there are a few other students who are like this, who just don't need to drink, smoke, and so on, to enjoy themselves. This is a bit of a rant but it really annoys me the way we're expected to be and act, and if not we're attacked individually by other people, it's as a whole by the society (largely the media) we live in. Don't drink? You're a loser! Don't want to take (illegal) drugs? You haven't lived, commit suicide! Anyway I feel I've gone on too long for what should have been a short reply! This is a nice forum btw, got some useful information and views so far... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Classic Rock   10 #5 Posted September 25, 2003 The Classic Rock bar plays Queen. We don't have 'crap' music on our music system. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Moon Maiden   10 #6 Posted September 25, 2003 Have you found your pub yet Classic?? Or has the old bint been sorted??  Moon Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Jamie   10 #7 Posted September 25, 2003 Originally posted by Mr. Teatime Well I used to drink, when I first started university I used to do the whole 'social' thing, but I don't think I can ever say I really enjoyed drinking. Only reason for ever doing it was peer pressure. I just got fed up with it. It costs money, I felt terrible in the morning, whilst drinking I never really enjoyed it anyway, and it never really got me anywhere socially anyway. Whilst the media loves to portray students as heavy drinkers, who whilst not drinking are smoking cannabis all the time or doing a load of other drugs, not all of us (well, there's me...) are like that. It all seems a bit pointless to me, also I don't see why I should 'have' to do these things to be a likeable person. Note - I don't have problems with what other people do, the only thing I don't like really is sitting right next to someone who is smoking as it makes my clothes stink and I have to have a shower when I get home to get rid of the smell. I am more confident in talking about this stuff since I found out that there are a few other students who are like this, who just don't need to drink, smoke, and so on, to enjoy themselves. This is a bit of a rant but it really annoys me the way we're expected to be and act, and if not we're attacked individually by other people, it's as a whole by the society (largely the media) we live in. Don't drink? You're a loser! Don't want to take (illegal) drugs? You haven't lived, commit suicide! Anyway I feel I've gone on too long for what should have been a short reply! This is a nice forum btw, got some useful information and views so far...  Totally agree with you Mr Teatime.  I was t-total for 8 years and have only just started having a drink again now. I only have one or two beers if i go out and maybe one on sundays.  Ignore peer group pressure I say. Do what you want and what you feel is right for you.  I really don't like that smokey clothes thing too... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Zamo   10 #8 Posted September 25, 2003 Mr Teatime, I am sorry if I have caused offence!  Iwas not actually taking the p*ss out of you for not being a drinker (well perhaps just a little bit;) ). I was really taking the p*ss out of the rest of us who failed miserably to think of anything to do that doesn't involve drinking!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Classic Rock   10 #9 Posted September 25, 2003 Originally posted by Moon Maiden Have you found your pub yet Classic?? Or has the old bint been sorted??  Moon  No developments yet......meeting with the old bint on Monday to try to get the PEL sorted out. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Moon Maiden   10 #10 Posted September 25, 2003 No developments yet......meeting with the old bint on Monday to try to get the PEL sorted out.  We have had words with a friend is all and are still waiting to hear back  Moon Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Guest Mr. Teatime   #11 Posted September 25, 2003 Where is the classic rock bar located? Any nights in particular there that are recommended? thanks Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...
Belle   10 #12 Posted September 25, 2003 Places to go for alternative people...  Mars?  Somewhere out in space anyway, had you decided what features you were looking for? green? small? or maybe a bit like ET? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Share this content via...