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This is the funniest thing ever!!!!!!!!!!!! Fruit getting fruity!!!

http://www.sheffieldforum.co.uk/showthread.php?t=505791 Take a look at this. Not the same situation but same feelings!!!!!!!!!

My mum collects dolls has hundreds old and new. Shes always fixing them or making her own. I could ask her for you if ya like???

I believe cat pens are the best option. I mean you wouldnt allow your 2 year old child to go out alone at night or play by a main road or your dog for that matter. I know cats like to roam and explore, and some cats would not take to being caged in. But I find most cats adapt quite happily. If there is enough for them to enjoy, lots of places to lounge in the sun and run around. Even better if they are introduced from kittens. It gives you the peace of mind that your furry friend is safe and well without being locked indoors, and no danger of being hit by a cr, pinched or worse, also no more unhappy neighbours (cat poop in gardens) or dead birds!! http://www.catsofaustralia.com/cat-enclosures.htm The link is from Austrailian pens but it gives a good idea what can be done etc etc. All my cats live happily indoors with access to the pen and are all fine x

Yeah she messaged me. They did move away without him, which is awful:( but I did read a story the other day about a woman who was reunited with her dog after 8 years, due to a microchip!! So never give up hope just make sure to keep address details up to date!!

I hope you find Fudge soon:(

I know its awful, my cat went missing but luckily came back after a couple of days. I have seven cats now and spent £800 building a giant cat run in my back garden. They all love it, and have all been in it since being kittens. They still get to go outside and lounge in the sunshine, watch birds ets but I know where they are and that they are safe and well.

No not at all. He did have a weak moment at one point and the only reason nothing happend was because I had smoked a cigarette and had no chewing gum, so couldnt respond!!!! I was gutted, i didnt want that to be his memory of our first kiss, stale smoke!!!!!!!!! Although you raise a valid point I do believe the cant have feeling adds to the desperatly want feeling and makes it, all the more stronger feeling!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Bees are brill!!!!!!!!! Love em. Tiny hairs on their backs in lovley colours, such hard workers and fascinating creatures. One was injured on my patio. I put some honey on a spoon and watched as it sat a drank it with its long curly tongey sucky thing!!! Im sure there is a name for it. It rested a while and then buzzed off a happy bee!.

ya shouldnt kill anything. Everything has the right to live, pesky or not!!! You cant get in to the mind of a wasp so you dont know its stinging for no reason, maybe its a bit scared , having a bad day or just peed off you are stopping it having its lunch. That poor wasp may not have eaten for days!!! And yes I have been stung by a wasp and it did hurt, so has my cat!!! I still wouldnt kill one:hihi: Live and let live

How long is one expected to wait? Its been 33 years now and im getting bored!!!!!

The latter could be the better option!!!!!!!

I know what you mean Millhouses!!, life just seems to be one long search for the right person!!!! Im starting to think its all a myth, this soul mate business:roll: Just something we have created to make us feel better, like there is hope of meeting the right person at the right time and living happily ever after!!! Im now a non believer as I have discovered, quite painfully, that even if you are lucky enough to meet him he may just not be available for duty!!!!

I did but no answer there either??????

All good suggestions thanks, I have been thinking about getting a dog!!!! I did used to run a lot so may take that back up, healthy body, healthy mind and all that!!!!!!! Men who needs em!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thanks I may try that, although I dont actually drink so it may not be the answer for me:hihi:

It was a method suggested on how to forget him!!!!!!! I think you are all right!! Its probably a mid life crisis on his part. he is 61 and his kids have just left home so he probably is flattered by the attention he gets. He has been with his partner for 25 years, although never married to her

I think you are right. Thank you. Its true he cant be truly happy or he wouldnt have let things get this far!!! Im going to think positive and move on in a happy way!!!!

Yeah he is older than me!!

Perfect is just a word that I used. Im not saying he is perfect in every way, you are right though I think!!

I understand what everyone is saying, and you are all right. I have thought about all these things myself. I am not immature to the ways of the world or the way I view my feelings. I just want rid of these feelings, im not asking how to be with this man or ways to make him leave his partner, Im wanting ways to get over him and move on. Ive been played enough times in my life to know what that feels like, and this is different. Its a very difficult situation.

Nothing phsyical has happend at all, he does not fart and burp at work either

Thanks for all your advice, you have raised some very good points. Its not infatuation,

he does everything perfect!!!!!!!!!!!