Yes, the names/nicknames makes it difficult and the repeated use of the same name all the more so! I originally searched for Tommy as Thomas thinking that was his birth name but it is actually his proper name.
He had a brother named Jack but again I don't know if that is his real name or just another nickname. My grandmother used to correspond with one of his brothers after my grandfathers death (around 1984?) and he told her he was going in for some surgery. Then the letters stopped.
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Sorry Yvonne, I am new to the forum and cannot send private messages but I would be interested in getting in touch with you.
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@KenL60, ditto. I am interested in contacting you too.