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this can be closed I have had some advice and know what I am going to do. Thanks .

I have recently heard something that has shocked me. I was wanting some advice on what to do. I heard recently that someone I once new. Has put locks on her child's bedroom door. This child has autism/adhd and when the child is on one she locks the child in the bedroom. So he can't get out, iv known this for a few week. As well as hearing a few Other worrying things. I know the person I heard it from would not make it up. Cos they have a close link to the person in question. I feel concerned for the persons child, as this has to be a big health and safety risk. Specially when she goes sits on neighbours garden while his up stairs locked in. What if their was a fire in house?? (God forbid) Or if the child injured them self while Losing it's temper. Ok this child can be aggresive but the child is 8. NO CHILD in my eyes should be locked in their bedroom door or be locked in. I tried to forget what I was told but I cant , I don't know weather to contact parent. As I once knew her and just ask her about it , or contact social services. I know mother hardly has them and has never had a bond with this child . She does not have a lock on other child's bedroom. It just seems wrong need advice please.

I like quiet a few this year.. 1)Ella. My first choice 2) James 3)Mk1 4) Lucy This years competition has some real talent. Apart from rylan who everyone dislikes. Which actually makes me like him, that his hated. I just like to like him to annoy all them that dont

I ♥♥♥ Mr lemon his legend lol

Here here I totally agree, sad fact is the bullies parents still have their kids. The bullies still have their lives, poor Amanda doesn't. It shouldn't get to point where it takes someone's life ending because of it. For awareness to be raised they should be tackled before It costs any lives. Hope the bullies can live with themselves.

I have been cyber bullied, I have also been the bully before.It's a immature and a cowards way of solving problems. You don't realise how much it can effect people and their lives. Until you as a bully are bullied, and experience the treatment you gave. To feel unsafe outside because of bullies is one thing. Because you can run/ hide in safety of your home. Then to have it happen in the only place your supposed to feel safe. Is a total different story, you feel trapped and like their is no end. I was bullied so bad, I felt my only way out was to take an overdose. Until your in that situation you will never know. I was in my early to mid 20's when this happened. I could not cope with it as a adult. So must be a lot harder for a teenager. I learnt a harsh lesson guess you could Say what went around come around For me. I would never bully anyone in anyway again. Knowing how being cyber bullied made me feel , I would not wish it on anyone. Glad laws are stricter now and that people are aware that this goes on.

I would be a liar if I said I had not done this. If I do judge someone, that actually turns out to be a good person. Or becomes someone I end up socializing with. You always get asked by new friends" what did you think of me when you first saw me??" I always tell them what I thought when I had judged them.And I always apologize to them for judging them, if my judgement is proven wrong. I try not to be judgemental these days.

I think despite difference of opinions on here, we all know that no child. No matter their race, religion and gender Deserves to be shot. This girl is an amazingly strong person, who stood up for what they believed in. Despite the consequences, I wish her a speedy recovery. Its a sad world we are bringing kids on to now a days. (Sound old) I mean every word

I bought a few thank you presents for close friends the other day.

Wondering if anyone can help, I know how useful this forum can be at times like this. Just a note to say if anyone finds a "blue corsa" , I reckon it looks purple though lol. Although now it might also be black and burnt out, As it was STOLEN off BELL HOUSE ROAD at some point last night. The registration for it is....V53 KDN Could you please private message me, we are not sure what time it was stolen. It was not outside the house this morning, when my dad got home from work. He woke my brother to tell him the car was not on the front, and sure enough it was not. My brother worked hard to pay for his car and insurance ect. He works 12 hour shifts weekends and is also at college Monday - Friday. His a good kid, and not like most lads I know at that age who rather be out getting in to trouble. I am so annoyed they have done this, as I bet the person who stole it . Was a bored youth or older lad that sits on their backsides all day doing sweet FA. And nothing but a giro once a week to look forward to. Robbing sods, anyway any information provided would be appreciated. Thank you....

I also wanted to say I am away for a week at end of august. How do you go about holidays with fostering ?? I might have to start after my jollies

Hi all thanks for your comments much appreciated, all of them. When I said short term I meant until they are re-homed but not actually keeping them as our own. If u get me, My daughter loves dogs and my 2 boys. I didn't want to go out and spend hundreds buying one from a breeder, when there is dogs out there that need a home a lot more then they do. I will look through all pms and that now and let you all know how I get on.

Wondered if anyone can help?? I want to know what I have to do or who I contact about the above title. I have experience in handling rottweiler's , labs , staffy bull terriers. Through dog sitting for friends (I am at this moment half way through a 2 day dog sit with my mates rottweiler) while away and having a dog of my own before. I decided to take this root, because I love my canine friends. After much consideration decided I did not want one full time. Hence how I got to this conclusion, of fostering dogs short term. I have 3 kids aged, 14,10,4, I am a wheelchair user. I have a husband who works only 16 hours a week. We are home quiet a lot , I have a huge house and garden for the dogs to run round. I really think this was a worthy cause and would like to contribute to helping out. Any information appreciated, pm me with details ect. Thanks

I prefer to not have kids round if adults are drinking either. I just had my birthday party , and I didn't allow children to come as I had sitters for mine. My daughters party was very successful christmas and we had a house full. I mean mega wall to wall kids and adults full and everyone had a great time. Make sure kids have plenty to do . And at night I would change the nursery rhyme cd for something for the older crowd when all kids have gone lol. My mate once forgot to do this it was soooo funny, she had loads of us round. And no kids and shouts lets get this party started. She walked up to stereo and pressed play and out came a version of polly put the kettle on I didn't know existed lol. I am sure you will all have fun

yes for kids cutting and sticking bits and art stuff , I don't spend a lot on it as they just mix all lovely colored pain in to one crazy color ect. I love pound land for filling up the kids art box.

ironing I hate ironing it is tedious. grrrrrrrrrrr

phenergans its a sedative and also relieves itching, you can buy it for under a fiver at chemist over counter .

I am on twitter I like it prefer it to fb sometimes.

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Hi was wondering if anyone can help me, I am a long term sufferer of motor neurons. And last 4 year have spent my time researching ways to ease my symptoms or even slow the progression down. I finally found out about a treatment the other day, known as stem cell treatment..... Check link for more info on my condition and the treatment I am wanting to have. http://worldstemcells.com/stem-cell-news-2-23-2012?doing_wp_cron I have already contacted the clinic which is in mexico and had a email back off Dr Kadish. And found out the treatment is $15000 which is I think 9440 pound in uk pounds. My friends have offered to help me raise the funds, as I have no family to turn to for support or help with this. The only problem is where to start, we all agreed we need to apply for sponsorship, grants and fundraisers. I haven't a clue of any laws or rules we have to abide to, do we have to register it like a chairty. I wouldn't look to this as a solution if I had any other way, after 10 years of pain , being pumped full of morphine and crap, losing the ability to weight bare making walking a no no. Months of neuro rehab and time away from my kids for me to come out of hospital. To find I am only entitled to physio once a week unless I am a stroke patient. Which then means with my condition being progressive, and not having the services that the rehab becomes a waist of time. I don't let the wheelchair stop me don't get me wrong. I horse ride weekends with my daughter and do what I can, when I am able to. I would give anything to enjoy things like I used to and to just walk my kids to school. Knowing there is a chance I could do that, I can't just sit here and say this is it. I have to find a way to make it happen, besides I have nothing to lose really, There is no cures and I know this treatment is not one, but it does repair and reverse the effects of my symptoms. I have been in touch with quiet a few of the patients from this clinic and some live in the uk and have spoken highly of its effects. I would appreciate any advice offered with regards to raising money. thanks muchly.

I would love a night out with other disabled ppl and their carer's. Although I wouldn't want to go clubs aint too bothered about clubs. I don't mind pubs or any where else though.

I do this a lot, and If I could even put in to words how much I have changed I would. I went through a few year of shear hell, people let me down, I got so sick and unwell with my motor neurons and stress causing my condition to progress. I ended up going from being a mum that walked every where with her kids, to being quiet dependant on a wheelchair. I had my family, desert me and suffered being terrorised and abused by my sister. I sunk in to depression, I wouldn't get out of bed . I had gone from being bubbly, outgoing, happy, and the life and soul. To the complete opposite and it was a horrible time, I felt there was no point and gave up. Now I have completely come to terms with my condition, I am out most days. I do all the things I used to in fact I do more now, and am more daring will try most things. I don't let the fact I am differently abled get me down much or stop me achieving. I have a lot of new friends who are amazing and great family. I am doing things I enjoy and out of bed everyday and enjoying life. Things in life can be horrible when they change, specially when it all hits you at once. All the changes in life you go through are what make you, you. And you become stronger every time you come through these changes. I have a whole new outlook on life now, I don't take things for granted. I am more self aware and I am true to myself and to those around me.

I have a friend that is great at DIY actually first time we really talked she was cutting tiles down to put on fireplace. And other day she concreted, 8 fence posts in bless her. She really is great at things like that, and will try anything. I am happy to try anything to, I once took my stereo apart and fixed it. I put up wonky shelves, changed fuses and when I lived at shirecliff. Tried me hand at wall papering my son's room. I would rather get someone else to save damaging the things further. Me and electrics ect do not go, I can change a plug quiet happily me self. I leave the diy to my other half. I prefer to direct and be the coulor scheme/ Interior decider of the house. lol Why do it me self, when I have my very own bob the builder Saves hiring someone and wasting more money, hehe

My parents live on bell house road they said he had been found. At least he is safe , the parents must of been sick with worry.