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Spanadora

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  1. I completely agree with lilypiglet, I suffered for years before I finally had the courage to seek help. Looking back on my life I can see I suffered in one way or another from a very early age, and as I got older it got worse and worse. I got to a point where my life was going to work and pretending to be ok then going home and getting in bed. No talking, no eating, no family, no friends. I honestly don't know how my other half put up with it, but he did. The day I finally spoke about it with a Gp was the day I made the best decision of my 26 years. I know it's hard to believe this when someone shuts themselves off from you and from the world, but talking about it and facing up to it is the best thing to do. If she hasn't done this already I'd suggest you try and hang in there until she does. However saying that I'm sure there is only so long you can wait before there's no going back, and don't feel guilty if you can't wait anymore. I really hope you can find a way to work through this together and wish your family all the best.
  2. I won a radio competition to meet westlife, two years in a row. Back in the good old days where I was convinced I'd marry mark.....
  3. Costco do massive tubs of peanut butter filled pretzels, not exactly what you're looking for but they are very very yummy!
  4. I completely agree with everything you said there, good advice.
  5. This is a pretty personal question so don't answer if you don't want to but what kind of treatment does your partner receive? I also suffer, you've described exactly how I am when I dip, with the right medication and counselling and support of those close to me I can pull myself out of it and open up. At the end of the day no one can make the decision for you and it's hard to say without knowing you both, but if you're unhappy you have every right to do something about it. Living with depression is hard enough, living with someone who suffers must be just as difficult. You wouldn't be a bad person for letting go if that's what's right for you.
  6. That's a shame that its so bad. I can't complain about mine, they can always fit me in the same week for none emergency appointments. Plus I am poorly quite a lot and when I get bad they always manage to squeeze me in on the day. I still have to wait a good 40 mins when I get there but if they can fit me in on the day can't complain. Plus my Gp is lovely, she only works a few days a week but has known me since birth and that helps with a lot of the issues I have, so I don't mind that its sometimes hard to see her. Greenhill medical centre, Lupton rd lowedges if anyone this side of town wants to change surgeries!
  7. Exactly, the other half makes the bed while I 'supervise'
  8. It's Sunday morning what more could you ask for?! I gave up on making the bed the time I got lost inside the quilt cover. Traumatised. Never again.
  9. IMO great schools, great local nurseries and Pre schools, nice houses, desirable area, acceptable crime rates, 10 mins to the park, 10 mins to the woods, 10 min drive to Derbyshire, loads of nice pubs and restaurants, close to totley/dore station, closer to work, great transport links to town and out into Derbyshire. Plus I was raised on this side of Sheffield and I wouldn't ever want to consider moving, it's one of my aims in life to have a house in this area when I have children as I had a great childhood here and would want them to have the same. And tbh part of the desire to live here is the fact that that part of Sheffield is a mainly affluent area, I like the image it portrays and I'm not ashamed to admit that.
  10. Straighten it out, glue and glitter it. Then wrap it round your finger, there you have a wedding ring, if you are 6 and getting married in the playground. Not that I ever did that.......
  11. I get loads of these usually from 3 and energy providers. I google the number and call back to opt out of future calls, I don't call the numbers though as that's how they make their money. I use the app 0800 wizard, it takes the number and finds a landline for you. Though as soon as I opt out of one another starts....
  12. Will do, my email account is a gmail one so look out for it
  13. Oooh this is fun, only just got up but yesterday: Breakfast: mini shreddies with milk and fresh fruit and a cup of tea Snack: banana and fruit tea Dinner: cous cous salad, fruit salad, Greek yoghurt and a mini Milky Way Snack: apple and fruit tea Tea: pizza chicken, new potatoes and salad and stewed fruit with pancakes and creme freche with wine I eat like this most days (minus the wine) and I lost 2.5 lbs this week, I love slimming world
  14. Our collection was missed due to the snow so they came on the Sunday of that week, have to say I was very impressed. Also had a slight heart attack as I thought I'd slept through a day and not turned up to work....
  15. You will be able to answer your own question but it always helps to have more than one opinion! What kind of interview will it be? Can it be done via email?
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