[Mz_BaBe]

What would you all say is the best way to get over being hurt?

Any ideas?

[wysiwyg]

I'd say the best thing you can do is keep busy. If you can do this then you'll find that given time the pain will go away. Eventually something new will enter your life and allow you to move on completely.

[Mz_BaBe]

yeah maybe..i do keep tryin to keep busy but its hard..

[Tipex]

getting hurt about what?

i take it u mean relationships?

[Mz_BaBe]

nothing matty my head just messed up lol

[spyro2000]

Originally posted by Mz_BaBe
What would you all say is the best way to get over being hurt?

Any ideas?

Go get medical treatment?

[Tipex]

true spyro, but what sort of medical treatment?

[spyro2000]

Originally posted by mattyuk1
true spyro, but what sort of medical treatment?

Depends what the injury is

[Tipex]

I think shes suffering from a fall out with u spyro.

[spyro2000]

Originally posted by mattyuk1
I think shes suffering from a fall out with u spyro.

'think' being the keyword there

[katy1981]

Originally posted by Mz_BaBe
What would you all say is the best way to get over being hurt?

Any ideas?

get a hobby or go out, spend time with good supportive freinds time will heal most things.
good luck

[JoeP]

Assuming it's a relationship type hurt, the best advice is to get on with the rest of your life, leave the cause of the pain behind and even if you want to get your own back on them remind yourself that :

"The best revenge is a happy life".

Seriously, just try new things, but don't go leaping in to new relationships yet. You need a 'time out' to be good to yourself.

Joe

PS - And try and contribute usefully, guys!

[*Twinkle*]

Assuming its relationship-hurt, I can totally relate to that Mz_babe... Like others have said, keeping very busy is the key!
Throw yourself into what your mates are doing... They're going sales shopping for the third day on the trot? You go too! They want to have a girly night in? make sure you're there... Keeping your mind occupied on other things will keep you from lapsing back to thinking about whatever has hurt you.

I tend to throw myself into my studies... I can write a cracking essay when I'm mad... There'll be something that totally takes your mind off it, its just a case of finding what it is

Start putting yourself first, doing what you want to do when you want to do it, and soon enough the penny will drop that you're a free young woman and you're enjoying being so!

[fruit&nut]

What would you all say is the best way to get over being hurt?

you dont,you just move on

[desy]

Change direction in your life make new friends ,go to new places, take up new hobbies or places to go on nights out. A start would be through possibly those off the forum.

[taxman]

Go on a killing spree!!

[leg_luvva]

Sex is a good healer

[beautynbeast]

rule one: No one in this life has the right to make you feel crap.
There is lots of things in life i hate, fear and hurt been two of them!
The only thing i can do when i come across these is face them head on.
as they say, "get back on the saddle", and in time you learn from errors and dont allow your self to tread the same path, as you do start to learn from life.
Throw enough mud at the wall and at some point it has to stick!
good luck and hold your head up high.

bb x

[Tipex]

Sex is a good healer


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And how would that help her u twit?

[desy]

Originally posted by desy
Change direction in your life make new friends ,go to new places, take up new hobbies or places to go on nights out. A start would be through possibly those off the forum.

Worked for me when I got divorced. Made new friends as the ones you knew in a relationship feel they are torn between the two of you.