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28-09-2005, 18:16
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Right here's my problem, I have a 14 year old with a crush on me and its just getting creepy. I mean at first it was kinda sweet. But now he's saying stuff like "You can be my randomness wife" and stuff like that... 
And he sent me this;
"The Single red rose that bloomed with such beauty lived forever in the heart of the owner, he named it Becky after the girl he first befriended because he was happy with her"
How do I get him to leave me alone?!
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28-09-2005, 18:17
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Send me his address Filthfan...............I'll sort him ! 
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28-09-2005, 18:18
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Forum Drunk
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Dunno tell him your really a man?
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28-09-2005, 18:18
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Misanthrope
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Three words for you...
'Sorry, I'm Gay'.
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28-09-2005, 18:18
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Perhaps you should tell him it's creepy and that you don't want anything to do with him?
Best way is always to be honest!
Wilf
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28-09-2005, 18:18
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how old are you and does the boy live nearby?
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28-09-2005, 18:18
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Quote:
Originally posted by FilthFan
Right here's my problem, I have a 14 year old with a crush on me and its just getting creepy. I mean at first it was kinda sweet. But now he's saying stuff like "You can be my randomness wife" and stuff like that...
And he sent me this;
"The Single red rose that bloomed with such beauty lived forever in the heart of the owner, he named it Becky after the girl he first befriended because he was happy with her"
How do I get him to leave me alone?!
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I thought you were male!
A woman called "FilthFan"... Hello 
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28-09-2005, 18:20
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Forum Drunk
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Sorry i will stop pm'ing you if you like  lol
Honesty is the best policy me thinks
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28-09-2005, 18:25
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Originally posted by mikeyspikey
how old are you and does the boy live nearby?
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She's 15, nearly 16 I think 
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28-09-2005, 18:26
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Quote:
Originally posted by GazB
I thought you were male!
A woman called "FilthFan"... Hello
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What's wrong with a girl being a filth fan?
I think I assumed she was male to start with (do women automatically assume everyone is female, I wonder), until I read a few more posts.
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28-09-2005, 18:27
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 Want me to have a word?
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28-09-2005, 18:28
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It's a reference to Cradle of Filth the band 
I only knew she was female coz Lotti introduced her as 'my sister'
I always assume forumers are 'people' until I find out otherwise 
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28-09-2005, 18:37
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Forum Goth
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hi. lol yeh im 15, 16 in june. nah thats ok jimbob, people can just be so annoying. and yes its reference to cradle of filth...i only realised how it sounded after i wrote it
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28-09-2005, 18:46
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reason i asked your age is that i thought it was the classic case of schoolkid crush on older person --cos thats happened to me!
got to be a real worry but it got sorted at the school where i work!---in your case id just tell him how you feel and try and let him down gently!--thats if hes a nice kid!
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28-09-2005, 18:50
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Quote:
Originally posted by FilthFan
Right here's my problem, I have a 14 year old with a crush on me and its just getting creepy. I mean at first it was kinda sweet. But now he's saying stuff like "You can be my randomness wife" and stuff like that...
And he sent me this;
"The Single red rose that bloomed with such beauty lived forever in the heart of the owner, he named it Becky after the girl he first befriended because he was happy with her"
How do I get him to leave me alone?!
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best way to get rid of someone in my experience is set them up with someone else. He has a shcoolboy crush (bless) and I doubt he will go away until we finds someone else to obsess on or you make him cry a lot.
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28-09-2005, 19:00
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Originally posted by robbie
....or you make him cry a lot.
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.... which is when he starts sharpening his axe 
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28-09-2005, 19:06
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Would agree with Wilf.
Be gentle about it, but basically say that you like him as a friend but don't want anything more serious yet.
The old Todd Rundgren line 'can we still be friends' may even cross your lips.
Assuming you still want to be friends with him, taht is. Somtimes a total break might be better.
Joe
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28-09-2005, 19:19
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I had a 19 year old flirting with me recently - was over the moon! LOL (didn't let him know that of course, lol) 
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28-09-2005, 19:56
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Misanthrope
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Quote:
Originally posted by msbehavin
I had a 19 year old flirting with me recently - was over the moon! LOL (didn't let him know that of course, lol)
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Yeah, I flirt with my girlfriend's mum too.
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28-09-2005, 19:58
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yeah - come to think of it - my daughter's boyfriend is 19 too!!! aint him though!!!
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