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Old 22-11-2008, 22:51   #1
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ello ello

me and some friends were discussing a concept recently of character trait recognition in others.

apparently, we strongly react to qualities in others, that we ourselves possess...

ie 'if you spot it, you got it'.

its not the first time i've come across this theory.

indeed i've noticed it a lot in recent debates on the forum, in myself and in others.....

anyone else?

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Old 22-11-2008, 22:52   #2
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Care to expand on this theory ?
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Old 22-11-2008, 22:55   #3
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Care to expand on this theory ?
just for you pattie....

one example (there are numerous)

"all he does is whinge and moan".....says someone who just whinges and moans

do you see?
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Old 22-11-2008, 22:56   #4
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I think Ive got it !
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Old 22-11-2008, 23:08   #5
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Err, or have I ?
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Old 22-11-2008, 23:13   #6
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just for you pattie....

one example (there are numerous)

"all he does is whinge and moan".....says someone who just whinges and moans

do you see?
Go on - Make it more obvious
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Old 22-11-2008, 23:14   #7
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I think he should give us more examples.
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Old 22-11-2008, 23:15   #8
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I dont get it.
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Old 22-11-2008, 23:18   #9
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Solomon1 is clearly an idiot.....
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Old 22-11-2008, 23:18   #10
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ok.....if people get really enraged about something on tv for example......"oh that wossy he's so arrogant and pompous!"

means that they themselves are arrogant and pompous
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Old 22-11-2008, 23:19   #11
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Solomon1 is clearly an idiot.....
which i would disagree with

but indicates that sidbobs certainly is
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Old 22-11-2008, 23:21   #12
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So if I call someone a pig, I am one too???
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Old 22-11-2008, 23:21   #13
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ok.....if people get really enraged about something on tv for example......"oh that wossy he's so arrogant and pompous!"

means that they themselves are arrogant and pompous
Well I DO think hes arrogant and Pompous but Im not !
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Old 22-11-2008, 23:21   #14
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If I call a male a homosexual, I am one too? Even though I am female.
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Old 22-11-2008, 23:22   #15
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So if I call someone a pig, I am one too???
no hun

...if someone thinks they see traits in you that are hog-like....then they must possess hog-like traits
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which i would disagree with

but indicates that sidbobs certainly is
ah ha, so i did get it
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Old 22-11-2008, 23:24   #17
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Well I DO think hes arrogant and Pompous but Im not !
if you think he's arrogant and pompous.....

then my dear, with this theory....

you are too

(in order for you to recognise the behaviour, you must have it)
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Old 22-11-2008, 23:24   #18
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no hun

...if someone thinks they see traits in you that are hog-like....then they must possess hog-like traits
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Old 22-11-2008, 23:26   #19
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if you think he's arrogant and pompous.....

then my dear, with this theory....

you are too

(in order for you to recognise the behaviour, you must have it)
Therefor its a theory I dont go along with isnt it ?
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Old 22-11-2008, 23:27   #20
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I think Solomon1 is intelligent, witty and very good looking!
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