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22-11-2008, 22:51
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ello ello
me and some friends were discussing a concept recently of character trait recognition in others.
apparently, we strongly react to qualities in others, that we ourselves possess...
ie 'if you spot it, you got it'.
its not the first time i've come across this theory.
indeed i've noticed it a lot in recent debates on the forum, in myself and in others.....
anyone else?
sol
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22-11-2008, 22:52
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Miss Moneypenny
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Care to expand on this theory ?
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22-11-2008, 22:55
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Originally Posted by pattricia
Care to expand on this theory ? 
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just for you pattie....
one example (there are numerous)
"all he does is whinge and moan".....says someone who just whinges and moans
do you see?
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22-11-2008, 22:56
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I think Ive got it !
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22-11-2008, 23:08
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Err, or have I ?
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22-11-2008, 23:13
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Solomon1
just for you pattie....
one example (there are numerous)
"all he does is whinge and moan".....says someone who just whinges and moans
do you see?
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Go on - Make it more obvious
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22-11-2008, 23:14
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I think he should give us more examples.
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22-11-2008, 23:15
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I dont get it.
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22-11-2008, 23:18
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Solomon1 is clearly an idiot.....
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22-11-2008, 23:18
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ok.....if people get really enraged about something on tv for example......"oh that wossy he's so arrogant and pompous!"
means that they themselves are arrogant and pompous
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22-11-2008, 23:19
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Quote:
Originally Posted by sidbobs
Solomon1 is clearly an idiot.....
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which i would disagree with
but indicates that sidbobs certainly is
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22-11-2008, 23:21
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So if I call someone a pig, I am one too???
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22-11-2008, 23:21
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Solomon1
ok.....if people get really enraged about something on tv for example......"oh that wossy he's so arrogant and pompous!"
means that they themselves are arrogant and pompous
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Well I DO think hes arrogant and Pompous but Im not !
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22-11-2008, 23:21
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If I call a male a homosexual, I am one too? Even though I am female.
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22-11-2008, 23:22
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Quote:
Originally Posted by ladydrake25
So if I call someone a pig, I am one too???
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no hun
...if someone thinks they see traits in you that are hog-like....then they must possess hog-like traits
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22-11-2008, 23:22
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Solomon1
which i would disagree with
but indicates that sidbobs certainly is 
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  ah ha, so i did get it 
..jus checkin
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22-11-2008, 23:24
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Quote:
Originally Posted by pattricia
Well I DO think hes arrogant and Pompous but Im not !
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if you think he's arrogant and pompous.....
then my dear, with this theory....
you are too
(in order for you to recognise the behaviour, you must have it)
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22-11-2008, 23:24
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Solomon1
no hun
...if someone thinks they see traits in you that are hog-like....then they must possess hog-like traits 
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ok
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22-11-2008, 23:26
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Solomon1
if you think he's arrogant and pompous.....
then my dear, with this theory....
you are too
(in order for you to recognise the behaviour, you must have it)
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Therefor its a theory I dont go along with isnt it ? 
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22-11-2008, 23:27
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I think Solomon1 is intelligent, witty and very good looking!
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