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18-03-2007, 16:48
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All i seem to hear about at the moment is about is married men having affairs...obviously not all of them 
Why do people get married?
One of my best mates is in a bit of a mess about the whole thing, so I have a question...will a married man ever leave??
I dunno what to say to her anymore so give me advice 
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18-03-2007, 16:51
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Don't you watch Eastenders?
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18-03-2007, 16:52
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Quote:
Originally Posted by scarby
Don't you watch Eastenders?
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haha yeah, but i didn't think Eastenders was real 
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18-03-2007, 16:53
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What do you mean, do married men ever leave?
Do you mean leave their wives - course they do!
I hope that when I get married it's for good, and if my husband did ever think about having an affair then he'd have the decency to tell me before doing anything, I'd be devastated but at least it would have a chance of being an amicable break up.
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18-03-2007, 16:55
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Originally Posted by x_Sunshine_x
What do you mean, do married men ever leave?
Do you mean leave their wives - course they do!
I hope that when I get married it's for good, and if my husband did ever think about having an affair then he'd have the decency to tell me before making a mockery out of me and the marriage...
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When do they leave then...
I'm never getting married, I don't see the point!
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18-03-2007, 16:56
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There`s Nowt Up With A Bit On The Side
What They Dunt Know Wont Hurt Em
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18-03-2007, 16:56
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Originally Posted by shoo gal
When do they leave then...
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Normally between 10 and 10.30.
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18-03-2007, 16:57
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Originally Posted by BHUDDA
There`s Nowt Up With A Bit On The Side
What They Dunt Know Wont Hurt Em
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um, and that is why i aint ever getting married
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18-03-2007, 16:58
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You don't have to be married to be cheated on, it happens in all walks of life for all sorts of reasons. Marriage is one of the best things a woman can do while the co-habitation laws are still deeply flawed.
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This has made a lot of people very angry and has been widely regarded as a bad move."
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18-03-2007, 17:02
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Chris_Sleeps
You don't have to be married to be cheated on, it happens in all walks of life for all sorts of reasons. Marriage is one of the best things a woman can do while the co-habitation laws are still deeply flawed.
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I kinda disagree really, if i was to get married (which i wont, due to the fact there are no men left in Sheffield ) it wouldnt be for the financial agreement if it all went wrong. That's not very romantic!
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18-03-2007, 17:19
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Quote:
Originally Posted by BHUDDA
There`s Nowt Up With A Bit On The Side
What They Dunt Know Wont Hurt Em
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Boil your head in a bowl of noodles young man (got to be a man)
and hope you're not the one left to pick up the pieces.
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18-03-2007, 17:26
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Quote:
Originally Posted by shoo gal
When do they leave then...
I'm never getting married, I don't see the point!
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Well you get The Decent But Confused Man - who realises that he wants to be with other women and doesn't love his wife anymore - so leaves her before anybody gets hurt.
You get The Man Who Doesn't Know What He Wants, who kisses/ sleeps with another woman once or twice just to see whether he'd rather be with them or other women.
And you get The B*astard who leads another woman on by thinking she's the only woman in the world for him until she finds out he's been seeing another woman/ women.
Or you get The Complete B*astard who leads double wives, and sees them both at the same time, may even have kids with them!
P.s don't let it put you off marriage though, if you're with one of the above - he'd still do it if you weren't married and you'd still get heartbroken! Hope you find a nice one though!
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18-03-2007, 17:33
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Quote:
Originally Posted by shoo gal
which i wont, due to the fact there are no men left in Sheffield
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I think you need to brush up on your biology!
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18-03-2007, 17:34
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eeeeeeeeeeeevil
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Quote:
Originally Posted by shoo gal
One of my best mates is in a bit of a mess about the whole thing, so I have a question...will a married man ever leave??
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Is she seeing a married man who she wants to leave his wife or is her husband messing about and she wants him to leave?
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18-03-2007, 17:47
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Chris_Sleeps
You don't have to be married to be cheated on, it happens in all walks of life for all sorts of reasons. Marriage is one of the best things a woman can do while the co-habitation laws are still deeply flawed.
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Sorry but that’s so not true. Twice I’ve been married and my ex husband’s have walked away with half of what I had before we met, even though they brought nothing into the relationship.
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18-03-2007, 17:49
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It could be more convenient for the mistress, if the married man stays put,
if he leaves for you - it creates another vacancy. Also life becomes humdrum (you need separate bathrooms) romance gets put on the back burner, then there's taking each other for granted. A man makes more effort when he's not under your feet, you appreciate each other more, have more to talk about. Best of all the FRISSON of being single, and knowing you CAN
Last edited by cressida; 18-03-2007 at 17:52.
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18-03-2007, 17:53
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I find it impossible to understand why anyone would stay with a partner who they know was cheating on them, and I can’t understand why anyone would see someone they new was in a relationship with someone else.
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18-03-2007, 17:55
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If someone cheated on me, I would have to get my own back.
An eye for an eye.
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18-03-2007, 17:56
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Quote:
Originally Posted by evildrneil
Is she seeing a married man who she wants to leave his wife or is her husband messing about and she wants him to leave?
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She's seeing a married man.
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18-03-2007, 17:56
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Quote:
Originally Posted by SheShe
Boil your head in a bowl of noodles young man (got to be a man)
and hope you're not the one left to pick up the pieces. |
Well said Sheshe!
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