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14-01-2007, 09:39
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bobbaganoosh
Join Date: Apr 2006
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Ola 
Iv woke up this morning, had a good think to myself and decided - Iv had enough.
I'v come to the conclusion that I cant be bothered with blokes at the minute, I dont want to be messed around, I dont want to fall for someone and I dont want to do any chasing.
Iv become a bit cynical when it comes to meeting the right bloke. I dont think there is one for me 
I want to be like that woman off 'hitch'...
Any other single people feel like that?
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14-01-2007, 09:43
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*gets coat*
Join Date: Mar 2005
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oh dear
its a sad sad day 
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14-01-2007, 09:44
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bobbaganoosh
Join Date: Apr 2006
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Originally Posted by melthebell
oh dear
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Whys that?
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14-01-2007, 09:51
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*gets coat*
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there'll be a lot of unhappy blokes about now that youve made yourself unavailable
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14-01-2007, 09:52
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bobbaganoosh
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Originally Posted by melthebell
there'll be a lot of unhappy blokes about now that youve made yourself unavailable
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Doubt that very much.
Im just sick of a bloke feeding me crap about what they want from a relationship- things they know a woman wants to hear- then not acting it... if you get me?
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14-01-2007, 09:57
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Misanthrope
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Originally Posted by _Kirsty_
Doubt that very much.
Im just sick of a bloke feeding me crap about what they want from a relationship- things they know a woman wants to hear- then not acting it... if you get me?
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Maybe you're too picky? Maybe the kind of men you need are not the ones you want?
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14-01-2007, 09:57
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Forum Hostage
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Kirsty you are far too young to be so cynical. Just refocus your attention on having a life, if the right bloke is out there he'll turn up and sweep you off your feet.
Probably when you look like you have been dragged through a hedge backwards and have a steaming hangover.
Just have some fun. 
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14-01-2007, 09:58
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bobbaganoosh
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Originally Posted by Snook
Maybe you're too picky? Maybe the kind of men you need are not the ones you want?
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I think i am too picky tbh...
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14-01-2007, 10:01
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*gets coat*
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Originally Posted by fox20thc
Probably when you look like you have been dragged through a hedge backwards and have a steaming hangover.
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but shes always like that
ooh errrrrrrrrrrrrrrm
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14-01-2007, 10:02
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Blokes are like busses, when you want one you can't get one, when you got one , better ones come 
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14-01-2007, 10:03
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bobbaganoosh
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Originally Posted by melthebell
but shes always like that
ooh errrrrrrrrrrrrrrm |
 Oi!
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14-01-2007, 10:04
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*gets coat*
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Oi! |
YAY! i love the pasty face 
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14-01-2007, 10:08
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Originally Posted by _Kirsty_
I think i am too picky tbh...
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There's picky and then there's picky... if you have a list of 'rules' about things like height/weight, drives/don't drive etc that's probably 'too' picky, as attraction doesn't always work that way. If you mean you're still looking for someone that ticks all your boxes then that's not picky - that's sensible. No need to be in a relationship just because society tells you that's the state you should be in.
Gypsy - single (ish) and happy.
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14-01-2007, 10:13
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bobbaganoosh
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Originally Posted by Gypsy Hack
There's picky and then there's picky... if you have a list of 'rules' about things like height/weight, drives/don't drive etc that's probably 'too' picky, as attraction doesn't always work that way. If you mean you're still looking for someone that ticks all your boxes then that's not picky - that's sensible. No need to be in a relationship just because society tells you that's the state you should be in.
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Nah im not THAT picky! I dont care if they can drive or not. I prefer blokes to be taller than me yeah- so thats anything over 5ft 8 haha
Its nice to be in a relationship though- i do miss the cuddles, the closeness etc. But im just sick of blokes lying to get there...
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14-01-2007, 10:13
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Groups Liaison
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I would like to be in a relationship but only with the right person, i now believe that is not meant to be for me, maybe i am meant for other things ... like a nun  .
Actually once accepted that things will be that way it can be quite a relief , the meaning of life is definately not having a man
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14-01-2007, 10:23
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Misanthrope
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Originally Posted by _Kirsty_
I think i am too picky tbh...
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Well there you go then. Why not try the path less travelled, you might get a nice surprise?
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14-01-2007, 10:24
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Originally Posted by _Kirsty_
Nah im not THAT picky! I dont care if they can drive or not. I prefer blokes to be taller than me yeah- so thats anything over 5ft 8 haha
Its nice to be in a relationship though- i do miss the cuddles, the closeness etc. But im just sick of blokes lying to get there...
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You're probably destined to fall for someone 5ft 5 then, sods law.
It's sad, but people can be very deceptive sometimes. There's plenty of time for you though. Enjoy having fun whilst your single, and if you happen to meet someone worth it then it's all good. If not, at least you'll have your friends, your freedom, and if you want cuddles you can always get a cat...
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14-01-2007, 10:30
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Registered User
Join Date: Jan 2006
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you could become a lemon thats getting quite fashionable these days
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14-01-2007, 10:30
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Registered User
Join Date: Oct 2005
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get out there & fill your boots, lifes to short to sit moping about
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14-01-2007, 10:32
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Registered User
Join Date: Mar 2006
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I gave up years ago! More trouble than they're worth sometimes
I believe I am destined to be single now...
It's convenient at the moment though as I really don't have time for a relationship!!!
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