I would suggest that adoption is a very honourable service in many cases and that you are currently keen to get as much advice/stories as possible.
However, I believe that anonymity is very important. Both for all parents concerned and the children.
From all your posts on this forum, 'emanjay', I can identify you, where you work and some of your domestic details.
You, and others who can pass on experiences, may wish to bear that in mind.
There are some very good adoption support networks on the UK internet. Have you tried any?