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Old 01-08-2006, 20:09   #1
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Is it just me? every man i meet always wants to rush things and are only after one thing!! whats ever been wrong with just watchin a film and having a cuddle? or going out together? It feels like every man i meet is only after sex and isnt bothered about just spending abit of time alone without doing anything!
is it just me girls??
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Old 01-08-2006, 20:17   #2
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Thats funny - I have much the same feeling about girls
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Old 01-08-2006, 20:23   #3
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Thats funny - I have much the same feeling about girls

I know what you mean Neil. I mean me being as sexy as I am you would think that Im used to it but I really do have a complex about being so handsome. Looking this good hurts
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Old 01-08-2006, 20:24   #4
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I know what you mean Neil. I mean me being as sexy as I am you would think that Im used to it but I really do have a complex about being so handsome. Looking this good hurts
stop being big headed! lol
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Old 01-08-2006, 20:25   #5
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Is it just me? every man i meet always wants to rush things and are only after one thing!! whats ever been wrong with just watchin a film and having a cuddle? or going out together? It feels like every man i meet is only after sex and isnt bothered about just spending abit of time alone without doing anything!
is it just me girls??
no its not just you.

just dont give them what theyre after!


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Old 01-08-2006, 20:28   #6
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no its not just you.

just dont give them what theyre after!


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i dont but it doesnt stop them trying it on or talking about it all the time!
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Old 01-08-2006, 20:32   #7
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Is it just me? every woman i meet always wants to rush things and are only after one thing!! whats ever been wrong with just having sex? It feels like every woman i meet is only interested in watchin a film and having a cuddle? or going out together? or getting married? and isnt bothered about just spending a bit of time in bed!

is it just me boys??
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Old 01-08-2006, 20:51   #8
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keep being the way you are dont change. my husband said he fell for me because i said no.
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Old 01-08-2006, 20:53   #9
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Is it just me? every woman i meet always wants to rush things and are only after one thing!! whats ever been wrong with just having sex? It feels like every woman i meet is only interested in watchin a film and having a cuddle? or going out together? or getting married? and isnt bothered about just spending a bit of time in bed!

is it just me boys??
i mean not all the time,i want to be able to have a cuddle with someone without them thinking that i want to jump into bed!
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Old 01-08-2006, 20:53   #10
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keep being the way you are dont change. my husband said he fell for me because i said no.
aww dats sweet
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Old 01-08-2006, 21:01   #11
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Is it just me? every man i meet always wants to rush things and are only after one thing!! whats ever been wrong with just watchin a film and having a cuddle? or going out together? It feels like every man i meet is only after sex and isnt bothered about just spending abit of time alone without doing anything!
is it just me girls??
Stop being frigid and just get on wi it
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Old 01-08-2006, 21:01   #12
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OK dizzychar, how many films would I have to watch with you, and then how long would I have to cuddle you before we could get down to business?

My guess is you are a 'couple of rom-coms, a five minute tender hug, then a big romp' kind of girl!
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Old 01-08-2006, 21:08   #13
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Is it just me? every man i meet always wants to rush things and are only after one thing!! whats ever been wrong with just watchin a film and having a cuddle? or going out together? It feels like every man i meet is only after sex and isnt bothered about just spending abit of time alone without doing anything!
is it just me girls??
I have often thought the same thing about most women I've met- little meaningful or interesting conversation or tenderness- just sex(which can be great of course)- not an equal mix- which in a 'relationship' leaves one feeling bored and emotionally empty.
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Old 01-08-2006, 21:32   #14
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bunch of whining crybabies on this thread!

of course thats all men think about, even your male friends the ones you think don't think that. they think that.

if you want to watch films and cuddle buy a dvd player and a huge teddy bear.
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Old 01-08-2006, 21:39   #15
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bunch of whining crybabies on this thread!
of course thats all men think about, even your male friends the ones you think don't think that. they think that.
if you want to watch films and cuddle buy a dvd player and a huge teddy bear.
I've changed my mind ... don't anyone clone this man! I was very misled on a previous thread ... (which is the story of my life )

We like the cuddling and romping part of course, but if we like you we also want you stay to around ... romping and then disappearing or even worse, being proved a lying cheat is no use to us ...
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Old 01-08-2006, 21:45   #16
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ahhhh....the eternal struggle between mars and venus.....

(wanders off chuckling to self)
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Old 01-08-2006, 21:53   #17
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ahhhh....the eternal struggle between mars and venus..... (wanders off chuckling to self)
lol and I thought it was the eternal struggle between the self proclaimed "nice guys" the ones who always finish last ... and the self proclaimed "*******" who only want or think about one thing.

And us poor deluded females caught between the devil and the deep blue sea ...
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Old 01-08-2006, 22:00   #18
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lol and I thought it was the eternal struggle between the self proclaimed "nice guys" the ones who always finish last ... and the self proclaimed "*******" who only want or think about one thing.

errr sorrrt of rubes. but men want sex. end of. that's why they are here on earth. it is a sliding scale and there are exceptions, but generally, men would like to have sex with any and all desirable females they see and some with under-age girls and some with in-animate objects and some with blow-up dolls and some with animals.

most men keep their illicit desires to themselves, else the girles would run screaming into the hills .

hmmmm....not sure i should let the cat out of the bag in this manner.....but am a great believer in putting the truth out there and then working towards a solution.....
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Yeahhhh...

one thing....

ok ill leave
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Old 01-08-2006, 22:06   #20
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errr sorrrt of rubes. but men want sex. end of. that's
hmmmm....not sure i should let the cat out of the bag in this manner.....but am a great believer in putting the truth out there and then working towards a solution.....
hahahaha Sol, it's the great dilemma of the human condition ... it's what everyone wants really ... but you don't have to be so careful as you aren't the ones that might get left holding the baby!

The unfortunate thing is that women are much more picky and we have more convoluted, complicated and intense desires, so when we find the rare man that satisfies them, we tend to want to hang onto him ...
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